She keeps texting me, how do i not sound needy

[insurge]

This girl is really into me weve been goin out for like 2 weeks. She keeps texting me like she misses me and why don't you text back to me and tell me your feelings. How can I respond without sounding too needy??? She sounds serious too so i don't think any C/F lines would help?

Something like, "Don't take things the wrong way it just means im busy, miss u back. xoxo"?

[ringleader]

your not TOO needy unless your more needy than she is. shes obviously pretty needy, so i wouldnt worry about going too far just yet.

[Phateless]

Originally Posted by ringleader

your not TOO needy unless your more needy than she is. shes obviously pretty needy, so i wouldnt worry about going too far just yet.

Careful with that... you let your guard down, the floodgates open, and before you know it the situation has reversed itself and you are the emotional needy one and she's in control.

Believe me, leave it the way it is. Ask me how I know.

[ringleader]

how do you know??

[masterH]

yep I agree with this guy 100%

Follow what your brain says.

If I were you,
I wouldn't txt her everyday.
I would txt first sometime just to say how things are going.
I wouldn't txt back right away. sometimes after 10 mins or couple hours.(u know how it feels like waiting for replylol )

I wouldn't say 'don't get me wrong' thing. If she complains about it, just say it's not her but it's you (like you were busy or something)

If she gets tired of chasing you around, then you can throw some sweet words and go back to normal routine

I know you feel bad when she keeps telling you she is confused or you are not that into her, if you give her what she wants, you can flip the situation instantly

Originally Posted by Phateless

Careful with that... you let your guard down, the floodgates open, and before you know it the situation has reversed itself and you are the emotional needy one and she's in control.

Believe me, leave it the way it is. Ask me how I know.

[ringleader]

it sounds like she's the needy one to me. like i said, i wouldn't worry about it. showing ur feelings to this kind of girl isn't going to get you into any trouble. if you start to see her pull away, just start responding less again. but really.. you're gonna be ok here. just be NORMAL

[redhead]

If she's hot then tell her to come over ur place and have fun. then later she wont bother you again.

[Phateless]

Originally Posted by ringleader

it sounds like she's the needy one to me. like i said, i wouldn't worry about it. showing ur feelings to this kind of girl isn't going to get you into any trouble. if you start to see her pull away, just start responding less again. but really.. you're gonna be ok here. just be NORMAL

I'm telling you, that's EXACTLY the trap I fell into. I thought to myself "she's even more insecure and needy than I am. It should be safe to open up to this one." Next thing I know I've handed over ALL the power and I'm right back where I'm used to being. You can open up to her, but KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON YOURSELF and don't take it too far, or you WILL regret it.

[dhies]

Originally Posted by Phateless

I'm telling you, that's EXACTLY the trap I fell into. I thought to myself "she's even more insecure and needy than I am. It should be safe to open up to this one." Next thing I know I've handed over ALL the power and I'm right back where I'm used to being. You can open up to her, but KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON YOURSELF and don't take it too far, or you WILL regret it.

Gonna quote this because it needs to be read again!

Same situation with me. Opening up can be good when you're in a LTR but even then, keep some secrets about yourself. Even if it's that one time you ate a booger or something stupid. I liked to hint at the fact I was keeping things from her in a playful way and it kept her interested and coming back fro more.

The moment I opened up completely, BAM! we need a break....