Fuck Buddy That Has BF?? Would You Do It??

[Autoace]

Toby.............Im not talking about active making an effort to find married women to fuck. But, all of us are bound to someday be confronted with this situation at least once. I am afraid to even talk to this woman at work because even though I wouldn't want to make an effort to fuck her, I probably would do it if she wanted it.

[Autoace]

I realized another point today which I thought I would add to the list of already good thoughts which have been posted regarding this situation......

If you are, as I am, in the position to fuck a married woman you have to ask yourself several questions.

1) Do you believe in what marriage stands for?

2) Do you ever wish to get married yourself?

In my case, I believe in what marriage stands for, but know that most often these values are unrealistic. I do not want to have kids so I do not think I will ever get married.

BUT!!! By sleeping with a married woman YOU ARE INCREASING THE POSSIBILITY THAT IF YOUR EVER MARRIED YOU WILL CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE as long as nothing negative comes from having fucked a married woman when you were single.

[sdnightfly]

You will meet women with boyfriends, and won't break up until you're a "sure thing". It's insecurity on their part, but it's who they are. It doesn't make them bad but they usually don't like anything messy or any intention on taking any accountability.

I'll make a comment on this - she had a summer fling with you, but if her boyfriend comes back, she's either going to dump you and be with him as if nothing happened, or she's going to end it with him.

The girls you're with are still pretty young and their concept of what a relationship is, is going to be kind of naive.

It's up to you if you want to be with someone who is also with someone else at the same time. It just sounds like they're looking around, or have already cheated before you were around.

And as far as you never cheating, never say never, but learn why these women are searching elsewhere (one is obviously because it's a LDR) so you're not "that guy" that these girls are telling you about. Feel good that you have no intention of cheating in a relationship, because you'll always be able to not deal with the guilt.

Originally Posted by Autoace

So now that my game is a bit more natural, I seem to be attracting all types of women. Not only single women but women who have boyfriends as well.

Over the summer I was fuck buddies with a girl from school, and I was aware that she had a boyfriend. She had said she was probably going to break up with him, but we know that this is strictly her validation for cheating on him. Long story short, I haven't nailed her in a little over a week, and am assuming she started feeling guilty (he lives long distance and she just got back from a trip to visit him).

I could care less, and did not feel very guilty about the whole thing (hate to admit it, but I don't........couldn't care any less). BUT I have never cheated on a girlfriend that I have had serious relationship with. I plan on being single for a long time, and this situation is bound to arise often.

Now, there is another girl that I go to school with who also has a serious boyfriend. She just told me today that she has been trying to get up the courage to make a move on me for a long time! WTF?! I wasnt exactly trying to hard with this one......hahaha

In closing, I think that my game tends to attract those women who see me as just a good time (a few fucks and thats all.......I don't mind because I don't want a g/f of any kind).

But, should I continue fucking girls who have b/fs? What would all of you do in my situation???

I am afraid that doing this regularly will lead to me fucking a married woman or something which I never want to do....