The worst thing a guy could hear!

[Pocket Rocket]

hey guys,

my girlfriend is being a bitch to me at the mo and we just talking last night about brawls and shit. Then she said to me "oh we ever got into trouble i know you wouldn't be able to protect me!"

I'm sure u'll agree thats the worst thing a guy could be told and it aint true. I'm not a violent guy but by no means am a wimp! I train in the gym 4 times a week and lift heavier weights than most people around my age.

I was pretty pissed when she told me this and told her to go find a new guy! Aint really spoke to her since

Where do I go from here?

All comments will be appriciated, thanks guys!

[anthony2183]

The question is what do you want man? Do you want to be with her or find somebody new? If you still want to be with her then I personally would play it off like you were very serious about telling her to find another guy, and don't make contact (Let her call YOU). Let her believe that you are very capable of being strong and that if she insults your manhood you will find someone better. She will have more respect for you..and she'll be all over your balls. But if you've already apologized and sent a millions texts then I wouldn't waste your time trying this. She might just think you're being weird all of a sudden.

[jscore]

shit test?

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by Pocket Rocket

I'm sure u'll agree thats the worst thing a guy could be told............

No it's not.

"I am pregnant" is.

Dude, you got shit tested. That's it.


P.S. THE WORST thing to hear is: "I think I gave you HIV"

[Poseidon13]

I'll agree with the rest of the crew: shit test (BIG time).
I really hope you haven't sent her any texts messages where you apologize. Not worth it. Be sure of yourself. She will come back to you, eventually...
Be strong bro.

[DeadEyeDick]

a. she could have been kidding
b. she could be an asswipe
c. arguments about who could beat up whom seem more appropriate for 10 year olds
d. all of the above

Well, what's the right answer?

[razer_man]

My response to that shit test would be (of course in a COCKY tone):

"Yeah because your'e big/fat enough to handle them yourself anyways..." and then smile!

Actually i dont think i would really say that, but then again... it depends on the situation :P

Of course i'm no pro in the PUA world yet... but i often find that situations which are tense are best resolved by turning them into a joke or something funny... creating a common point where the two sides can just relax or something... :P

Cheers, and dont let her get on your nerves! Keep your distance, and be strong dude!

[sampanye]

Originally Posted by razer_man

"Yeah because your'e big/fat enough to handle them yourself anyways..." and then smile!

'big' = c/f response
'fat' = cruel and guaranteed to anger her

I don't even think the question should be whether you would be able to protect her. It should be whether you're willing to protect her.

You said yourself she was being a bitch and so she latched onto something she knew would insult you. She was probably out of line, but I think you overreacted, too. I mean, sure, she was rude. But it's hardly the sort of thing to break up over.

anthony's right, the question now is where do YOU want to go from here?

[mindquicken]

Originally Posted by TrueStory

P.S. THE WORST thing to hear is: "I think I gave you HIV"

I've actually gotten this one.

[razer_man]

Originally Posted by sampanye

'big' = c/f response
'fat' = cruel and guaranteed to anger her

I don't even think the question should be whether you would be able to protect her. It should be whether you're willing to protect her.

You said yourself she was being a bitch and so she latched onto something she knew would insult you. She was probably out of line, but I think you overreacted, too. I mean, sure, she was rude. But it's hardly the sort of thing to break up over.

anthony's right, the question now is where do YOU want to go from here?

Even though you are a girl :P i must say that i do not agree with you...
I actually once had this situation, with a dominant girl (which is actually my current LTR... she's much more submissive now :-P ) and i remember i used something similar to what i wrote here... it turned out great... she never said something that would question my manhood again :-) Basically, if she questions my manhood, i'll question her womanhood, but more brutally... as simple as that...

So i guess it worked out pretty well... Of course, its important to use a proper tone and to be sure that the atmosphere is right to use this text...

Cheers!