A Girl That Doesn't Want A Relationship

[Rusty07]

It's weird, because I'm not the relationship type of guy. I don't like being attached. But the one time I meet a girl that I'm completely into......she doesn't want a serious relationship. And it's really depressing, because I feel like I've found someone special. And it doesn't have anything to do with me, it's just that she's had 4 serious boyfriends in a row and just wants to have a good time.
So we've got a friends with benefits type of situation. I like her a lot though, and the thought of this relationship ending is really making me horribly sad.

Is there anyway that I can start to try and change her mind? Has anyone been in this situation before? We're together now, and just the thought that this might end soon is killing me. If it does end, I'll probably be a mess for a month.

[Diddy1]

holy mother of god

we're in the exact same situation... read my thread i started recently

[cagalindo]

give her a ggreattt time in bed?

[Power of Simplicity]

Wow, I *just* replied to Diddy1's thread. Diddy, why u stalkin' me?

yea, go read his thread, it's got your answer.

[sdnightfly]

Just tell her that you want more than a FWB/FB, because it's not what you're looking for. I'm not saying to never talk to her again, but it's going to take some time to deal with her current state. You have to respect what she wants, but it's going to be difficult when you want to be exclusive and she doesn't, and just keep in touch with her from a distance, until you are able to deal with her having options, but so will you.

She wants to see what else is out there, just look at it as her time to experiment and explore, and realizes that options can lead to even lonelier nights than when you're not dating anyone.

There's a point where you've been with enough other women that how you feel right now won't exist, and will see her differently. By that time she might want a relationship and you're busy having way too much fun.