difference between relationship and pickup game

[krytek]

what are the similarities and differences?
I get a little confused sometimes, e.g your not supposed to show her you like her very much until late pickup but you should show your GF that you like her
very much all the time, and you can't overdo it because she'll get buyers remorse or some shit.
another example is yesterday she tried to tell me something that she didn't like me doing, and I though it was a shit test so i tried putting her back in her place
and we got into an argument which ended with me backing down (when i realized she was right) feeling like an AFC ( she probably got that vibe, can't be sure though).

anyway, my best hope is if somebody with a bit more experience can elaborate on the do's and don'ts.

[sdnightfly]

Relationship is a lot of work and focus on one person. Pickup game is a lot of work and focus on multiple people with varied personalities, interests and honing in.

[FemmeFatale]

Pick up game is easy because there are NO feelings/emotions involved.

When you're in a relationship, you can really mess it up by following all these rules. What you have to remember is to keep your respect.. this means, you dont do anything out of fear of losing her, you dont say sorry where its not needed, you do whatever you FEEL like doing..and if she crosses the line you let her know.. thats all you need to know.

[whwssor1005]

Surprisingly, a lot of the rules for pick-up can and should be applied to a relationship. It goes without saying that you should avoid seeming needy and still keep busy when you have a gf.

In regards to your questions:

First off, while it is important that your gf knows that you "like her," you should by no means overdo that. From my experience, a girl, even a gf, never wants to know that she really, really "has" you. So, should you tell her you like her? Sure by all means; however, it will be creepy if you say it too much.

Second off, what was the context of the argument? In other words, what did she say that she didn't like you doing and how did she frame it?