LTR - GF & 3some

[JumpingFromPlanes]

So my LTR get really touchy when she drinks (not drunk but a few drinks). She has gotten this way twice now around a mutual friend of ours from HS (we are in our mid 20's). Anyway, last weekend the friend almost went to bed with us during a party, but circumstance prevented it, like my GF's sister being in the apartment and another friend. So i would of felt weird and the time wasn't right, but the sexual tension was there. The dirty talk that night before we went to bed mainly revolved around the other girl. Its was hot. So now i want to see this through. My GF and I have been dating for a while and we have a solid relationship. I was thinking using the massage technique though i not sure which girl would be witch in the example Style posted. Any other advice would be appreciated.

Thanks All

[jiggatycoon]

Not that I've ever done anything like this, and I'm not sure that I ever would with a girlfriend I cared about (not judging you, just saying for me), but I would definitely think you would start with your own girl. Make your girl jealous in this situation would probably be bad. Making the other girl jealous would not necessarily be so bad. Getting your girl hot=good.

Just my $.02.

[JumpingFromPlanes]

update:
Via IM

also. remember what we talked about on saturday night?
i'm thinking about asking her for real

Wowzers

[JumpingFromPlanes]

So last night we had a pretty long talk about the whole thing. She is def into it and is gonna ask the girl out for a drink to feel her out. She is a bit nervous and is not sure how to go along with it. I think we should casually hang out and build kino and move right into the dual massage at the end of the night, but my GF wants to take more direct approach.

[Cubix]

Awsome, just make sure you dont talk about it happening too much cause it will fall through..Ask her to come over for a drink too cause this will make things easier!!!

Welcome to manhood!!!

[FemmeFatale]

Originally Posted by jiggatycoon

Not that I've ever done anything like this, and I'm not sure that I ever would with a girlfriend I cared about (not judging you, just saying for me), but I would definitely think you would start with your own girl. Make your girl jealous in this situation would probably be bad. .

I completely agree.. only do this if you're willing to risk the relationship ending after this experience. People think differently when under the influence of alcohol and jealousy is a funny emotion.. not too many people react nicely when they see someone who they are emotionally involved with go at it with another person right infront of them... hey..some women fantasize about rape.. but when it actually happens to them, they're traumatized.

[JumpingFromPlanes]

I hear ya. We did set up rules about what we can do and can't do. I think we will be ok.

[JumpingFromPlanes]

Alright gentlemen, its go time. Crazy updates....ok not that crazy.

So last weekend we were all at a friends birthday party. This girl (from post #1) and I go up to the bar to grab a drink and she squizes my arm and notices i have been working out. (hint 1). Then later in the night when my GF and I are leaving she says to me "Not tongiht but one of these days, you me and liz" and giggles. This kinda catches me off guard since we haven't thought about it ina while. So then when i am about to leave i say "next week, some scrabble?" she responed "yeah some scrabble" with a wink!

All out of no where.

So my gf sent her a sms asking if she wanted to play scrabble this weekend. She said sure can this other guy come. So now i am thinking, alright, maybe we will just play scrabble. No big deal. But today i find out he is not coming!

O and the deal with the scrabble. All three of us have been playing it forever. Just something we do. Not a weird code word.