Goin on Vacation....What should I tell her?

[Slick101]

My GF's X-BF cheated on her when he went to Dominican Rep. (punta cana) 3 years ago...

Im going on vacation next week.... I still didnt tell her where Im going... But I am going to Dominican Rep (punta cana) same place with my family....

I dont know if I should tell her Im going there... I dont want her thinking Im cheating on her....

Should I tell her?
If not... where can I tell her im going instead?

Thanks guysss

BTW She told me wherever you go dont go to Dominican because thats the same place where (X-BF) cheated on mee

[young dubs]

I want you to read what you just posted outloud to yourself, and if you can't figure it out, then write again and I'll give you my 2 pennies :-)


(not tryin to be harsh lol)

[Slick101]

Originally Posted by young dubs

I want you to read what you just posted outloud to yourself, and if you can't figure it out, then write again and I'll give you my 2 pennies :-)


(not tryin to be harsh lol)

So WTF Should I tell her?

[young dubs]

that you're not her ex bf, and that where you go doesn't matter...don't give her that kind of false sense of power by allowin these beliefs to exist. Tell her that you've given her no reason to feel you're a cheater and that you're not gonna cheat...and that if she doesn't trust you then bein with her is pointless.

right now you're makin her the prize and givin her more value than yourself (fuck all that pick up talk, don't make it feel like she's better than you in anyway "I don't want her to think I'm cheating") unless you give her reasons to believe you're a cheater, you shouldn't worry about her thinkin you are, and if she is, then talk to her about it and instill it in her that you're not, but don't not do somethin or fear doin somethin you want to do, except if it goes against your morals or is somethin you don't wanna do.

also get her alone and play her the Usher song - I can't win haha, that'll sum it up
goodluck

-dubs

[Slick101]

Thanks Man...

Any one else confirms?

[LGFUAD]

just tell, the best way to make her suspicious or not trustworthy is you not telling her or lying to her...

tell her and dont even make a big deal out of it...

[FemmeFatale]

*rolling on the floor laughing her ass off*
You tell her the truth..and if shes stupid enough to believe that you'll cheat on her just because you're visiting the same place as her ex who cheated on her.. then you should dump her because being with someone that stupid can affect your IQ. You should also find out if you own any same colour shirts as her EX boyfriend and make sure you throw those out too.

[sampanye]

You are not her ex.

Her request is ridiculous and your way of handling it is equally as bad. Tell her that you're going to Dominican Rep with your family. If you lie, you're giving her a reason to believe that you're up to something dodgy, or at least a reason to be angry. If you're honest and she gets upset, then that's her problem. You haven't given her any reason to believe you'll cheat.