really need help here ~~

[choi1234lee]

Hey guys

I have been with my girlfriend ( ex-girlfriend) for about 1 year, the first six months was great we didnt have any problem. Then her mother came, ever since we had been fighting a lot because i didn't get the attention i wanted i made her cry a lot then she broke up with me. She told me that she doesn't have feeling for me anymore so i told her that i have been making mistakes and how much i love her if she could give us a chance so on.....

After two weeks we kind of got back together but she just changed into another person, she has been really cold to me and i dont feel the connection between us anymore. Two months later she broke up with me again ever since i have been with her all day long showing how much i care about her. Now we are just like being in a relationship but she told me that she doesn't love me anymore but she just wants to have someone around.....

what should i do ? is she playing with me ?
please guys i am really desperated

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by choi1234lee

Hey guys

I have been with my girlfriend ( ex-girlfriend) for about 1 year, the first six months was great we didnt have any problem. Then her mother came, ever since we had been fighting a lot because i didn't get the attention i wanted i made her cry a lot then she broke up with me. She told me that she doesn't have feeling for me anymore so i told her that i have been making mistakes and how much i love her if she could give us a chance so on.....

After two weeks we kind of got back together but she just changed into another person, she has been really cold to me and i dont feel the connection between us anymore. Two months later she broke up with me again ever since i have been with her all day long showing how much i care about her. Now we are just like being in a relationship but she told me that she doesn't love me anymore but she just wants to have someone around.....

what should i do ? is she playing with me ?
please guys i am really desperated

Dude your relationship is worse than Ron Paul's For President 2008 campaign.

It's a railroad to disaster.


Here is explanation for her coldness (i was there too):

She has feelings for you, but she's afraid to get hurt. She conceals them in order to protect herself. When she realized she can't hide them anymore, she completely withdrew and brokeup with you.

Her mother came? It's not her "mother's fault" at least not in many cases. Sometimes a distructive relationship will sit dormant, hiding under pretense of "love".

Then a catalyst, something that shakes that relationship, will set the hell lose. Typically, intervention of relative, cheating, abortion, un-expected death in family, separation by distance, etc, can test true love in relationship. When people love each other, really love each other, nothing from outside world can separate them.

Don't delude yourself by saying you love this girl. You dated her for what, a year? That's not love, it's lust filled with emotions. In your life you're going to have MANY "LOVES" like this; but soon you'll learn how to see them for what they are.


Move on. Time to learn and go.

[HumorUS]

Originally Posted by choi1234lee

Hey guys


please guys i am really desperated

That tells you all you need to know.

This girl wants to have you around while she tries to find someone else to replace you.

as soon as she finds that guy , (it may not be for a while) shes gonna treat you like garbage.. She knows that you are going to be there no matter what.. she knows that she runs no risk of losing you because you're spending the entire day with her telling her how much you love her etc.

What you are doing is you are DLVing yourself to the MAX!

I'll tell you what, the sooner that you go out with some friends and show her that you can still get girls, the sooner she'll realize that she cant be taking you for granted.

[choi1234lee]

omg...
That is really the last thing i want to hear .... /_\
i am telling myself to end this everyday !! but somehow i just can't stop thinking of her or calling her. I don't want to wait till she finds a new guy then dump me like a garbage
should i ask her about what would happen if she found a new guy ?

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by choi1234lee

omg...
That is really the last thing i want to hear .... /_\
i am telling myself to end this everyday !! but somehow i just can't stop thinking of her or calling her. I don't want to wait till she finds a new guy then dump me like a garbage
should i ask her about what would happen if she found a new guy ?

You should ask *yourself* what would happen to you when she finds another guy.


Start sarging. Best way to cure one-itis.

[choi1234lee]

so there's no point of trying to get her back right ?
i should just move on and find another girl before i got my heart broken right ?

[TrueStory]

you answered your own questions.

[choi1234lee]

zes i will !!

thany for replying !!

[TrueStory]

Hey speaking from personal experience:

getting over a girl can be difficult.

Just go through the motion of what you know. Read Magic Bullets, and go out there. Keep repeating to yourself "stay true to the game and game will stay true to you"

Go through the motion. Run your openers. Even if you feel apathetic towards doing so. Just do it.

It's like working out in the morning. You wake up, and you can't focus, you thinking is blurry and you can't make yourself get out of bed. But you move your feet, place them on the ground, get up, go through the motions of brushing your teeth, washing your face, taking a shower, getting dressed and making your way downstairs. Half asleep you start jogging or moving around to get blood flowing. Next thing you know, 10 minutes into workout you're already high energy, ready to go!

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