As if we just met
I am dealing with a twoset (female female), HB8 and HB10. HB10 is distant as usual. So nothing special.
I use negs and I use a story(marriage). They bring the topic up because they tell me that they bought some dresses to visit someone else's marriage with. I use statements. There is never a point when they contribute - except by asking questions. HB8 starts asking "why I keep on changing the subject" several times. I always reply with "because I want to - don't you want to talk about <summary of what I said, was always sth being interesting to girls>". HB8 and HB10 smile. And go back to their old posture of demanding again. As if smiling, relaxing and feeling was their least interest.
Meaning, they do anything they can to not establish comfort.
At the end of the conversation I say "can you do me a favor?!" to HB10 and HB10 actually said: "Why should I do you a favor?"
Shittest, yeah whatever. Thing is, I felt like I could go on and on and each time I am qualifying they back off. I started qualifiying quite early. Each time I want something they behave as if we just met. This is supported by HB8's constant asking why I am changing the subject.
Ideas? Are these the girls you have to use canned routines with?
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