reverse qualification

[meatwagon]

I was talking to a girl I just met at the bar who is a friend of a friend. After conversing awhile she started asking me questions like "what do you bring to the table?" I found myself telling her that I'm intelligent, perceptive, enlightened, etc... I was trying to make myself look good and answer her in a confident way. Later I realized that I was totally buying into her frame and qualifying myself to her. What is a good response for when a girl asks screening questions like these?

[Beaudacious]

"Everything" would be the answer...I'd wait for a wiser response on exactly how to avoid the question. My guess would be IOD/Disqualify-->DHV-->shit-test/offer hoop for her to jump through, then qualify her. Again, wiser words will follow mine.

[Linwood]

"what do you bring to the table?

"my plate and silverware.. as long as your cooking?"

there is nothing wrong with actually giving A LITTLE information about yourself, but the idea is to get HER to qualify herself.

the response above, or something along those lines will keep it a mystery and shows humor

[Quarterback]

I had an HB 9 ask me something similiar like, "so what do you do for fun?" It kind of took me by surprise. Looking back, I now take it as an IOI. But I was kind of honest, I said I like to read, go to the gym etc. Then I asked her, "what do you like to do." Then I started to kino the s$%# out of her

Don't oversell (overqualify) yourself and don't undersell too. Don't give too much info.

[Gambits]

quick question about this....


when you qualify what happens if they switch it on you


guy-what are your 3 best qualitys?

girl- you tell me first

guy- my 6 year old niece doesnt even use that anymore!

find a cocky/funny way of reversal?

[Olly]

Chick: What do you bring to the table?
Olly: (grabs cock) what do you think?

[spade_of_aces]

"nothing. my goal is to get drunk a lot and contribute very little to society"

really, anything but a direct answer is fine, for literally any question.

[ware_ru]

Originally Posted by spade_of_aces

"nothing. my goal is to get drunk a lot and contribute very little to society"

ehhhh, I would stay away from this sort of thing. I used to do this man and to be frank, it sucks balls. It creates a negative and antagonistic frame and it's not even funny; in general using sarcasm in your sarges FUCKING SUCKS. As juggler says, sarcasm is saying something good but meaning something bad. teasing is saying something bad, but what you really mean is, "I love you." Tease instead of using sarcasm.

As for the op, that's a really fucking weird question for her to be asking. Either she's a weird girl, or, more probably, the way you were talking to her made her think that she could talk that way with you, so you were probably making mistakes and not being strong enough before she even threw that out there.

The generic and easiest answer for shit test passing is just to ignore it. "What do you bring to the table"
*Look up at the lights in the ceiling* "God it's really bright in here. Anyway that's interesting, your index finger is longer than your ring finger..."

[monki]

it is OK to give her info so long as she gives you her's first.