How to transition back to A2

Roundhouse · #1 (**permalink**) 05-21-2008, 12:55 PM

gaming a girl met through friends. got multiple IOIs but facebook closed instead of number closed. tried qualifying online - she's playful but wont qualify herself to me. she wants me to qualify myself to her.

based on what ive read on this thread, my understanding is that I haven't generated enough attraction and that I need to IOD + DHV.

im not really sure how to transition back to A2 by IOD'ing. any advice? thanks.

DirtyDG · #2 (**permalink**) 05-21-2008, 01:35 PM

in short...get off facebook and get back LIVE! Thats great you "facebook" closed. That is not your goal...nor is getting a number. time bridging is key to what you are wanting to do. I would suggest purchasing Magic Bullets or the Cd Volume Series to cover this stuff.

Now...your specidic situation. Freeze out for a week or 2...more like 2. Find something interesting to do (and please do not think...dinner....movie...ice cream.....coffee....she does that stuff and she does it well.)

Make it seem like you were already going to be doing it and invite her along. when she joins you....start from A-2 and work it. make sure you truly understand qualification. if not...refer to your copy of TMM...better yet Magic bullets.

If you game isn't tight...and your game isnt tight on myspace/facebook....then get your game tight in person and then focus on online. you will have to meet up with her one day. its better to suck at online and keep it short and simple than sucking at your game period and being short and simple and lonely.

Best of Luck!