how to respond when a girl uses material on you

[yourmothersmells]

this is not the first time this has happend, but the most recent.

a girl who I've k closed numerous times has gave me the "this is why we can never go out with each other" or "this is why we'll never work" but in a joking way. The same way I USE it.

What is the best way to react when a girl is using game or material on you.

(i know when I use that material, it makes the girls want to qualify more to me.
When a chick uses game on you, should you play into her game, or should you re-set the frame to show you're in control of the frame?)

[Sickness]

Be witty, say something like "quit trying to act like you arent totally falling for me!" you gotta bite back Or you could be like "Listen we need to talk" (the same line girls always use when they are gonna break up with a guy) and even if its not the first night you have hung out just be like "I have been meaning to tell you this for sometime, but I think you are right and we should break up, and that you know she just wants you for your body and you hate feeling like a peice of meat!"

[Dropit]

Your attractive value in the eyes of the girl comes from the disparity of who likes whom, NOT from how much you like her or don't like her.

In other words, if you like her 10 points and she likes you 15 points, you're doing fine; but if you like her 5 points and she likes you 3, you're not doing so hot. The power comes from the comparison.

Comparisons can work two ways. You can either increase the disparity by DECREASING how much you like her, or by INCREASING how much she likes you.

Try to stay on the "you like me" thread, rather than the "I don't like you" thread, even if teasing.