"Do you have a boyfriend?"

Seascape · #1 (**permalink**) 03-02-2008, 10:39 AM

I'm not sure if this is the right forum/phase, but here goes.

Should you ask a woman if she has a boyfriend? I've read stuff from PUAs that suggest different answers to this. Maybe it differs between day game and night game, or between online chat and online dating, or some other situational scenario.

On the plus side: You won't waste time, and you show intent.

On the minus side: If you haven't built enough attraction and comfort, the mythological BF might be mentioned, and it will be very hard for her to change her story later. Maybe she has one, but wants to ride your bone anyway. You might be DLVing by asking, rather than DHVing by assuming she doesn't.

Ideas?

doa · #2 (**permalink**) 03-02-2008, 10:55 AM

Just act like she does not have one, if she does not mention him then she doesn't have one or she does not want you to know.

Design´ · #3 (**permalink**) 03-12-2008, 03:48 AM

Don´t tell this question a HB.

Example:
When the HB a BF have.

You have attracted her and she like to have Sex with than you ask She "Do have a BF??" than she thinks "oh my god what i make. I have a BF" you remind her at her BF.

When she has a BF she will you say before the NC

Sickness · #4 (**permalink**) 03-12-2008, 05:24 AM

NEVER NEVER NEVER! There is no reason at all, plus I figure if she does than she's lucky to be with me

Also if she ever does bring him up then just use a boyfriend destroyer aka build up unrealistic lofty expectations of him that she will compare him to in her mind and realize she could do so much better... like you! Say something like "im sure hes a really good guy, opens the door for you, treats you good, your parents love him... you guys will probably get married" Worked for me everytime I used it. totally aided me when i was gaming this gorgeous HB 9.7, god she was hot! Ended up in a 3 month LTR with countless nights of sex with her... and days