Breasts on Your Arm - Looking for Technique

[LeSal]

I'm wondering if anyone has any specific advice for this situation. I think it's an extremely common moment after attraction has been thoroughly establshed, particularly with girls who have boyfriends (and you have already established a high level of comfort).

You're physically positioned with her breasts to your shoulder and are occasionally giving positive physical feedback (either kino or a brief shoulder turn towards her) if she responds well when you're qualifying her. Over time, anywhere from 2 - 10 minutes, she presses her breasts more obviously into your space, finally to the point she's clearly pushing them into your shoulder. NOTE: At this point I have not put out a tight hoop / harsh qualifier yet.

What's the right move here? This seems to be a "pay fucking attention to me" move, but every time I've followed it as an indication to continue with the contact and build even more comfort, I feel I'm losing a valuable position / one time I think I lost huge points. Is there a physical way to express, "Woah woah woah, you haven't earned the right to press those marvelous tittays into me. You have to earn that shit..." Should you put out a medium to tight loop and then either move away or escalate depending on response?

[The_Jedi]

If she's pushing her titties into your body, you're already past all that, bro. This is exactly why and how people get screwed up using TMM for every woman out there, hot or not.

She likes you, she wants you, so why are you worrying about what phase you're in and if you're gonna look right and are you "letting" her moving too fast?

You should be moving, preferably bouncing, by then. If not, you just missed out on getting laid.

[philander]

if she does it very early on, it's a shit-test, so you just plow without noticing it.
if she does it later, AFTER she has earned your respect (i.e., qualified her self to her), it's a sign to escalate, esp. cuz she may be doing it subconsciously.

Philander

[elli]

I'm actually known for saying frank, crazy shit like this and it seems to work. I may just say "whoa now, put a leash on those things" or just look down at them... flick my eyes up at her and smile w/ some raised eyebrows. If I know I have her in the bag but she hasn't giggled at the look I may get even gayer and whisper "YESSSSSSS!" and do a little fist pump.

Originally Posted by LeSal

"Woah woah woah, you haven't earned the right to press those marvelous tittays into me. You have to earn that shit..."

LMAO!!!
I will mail you 5 dollars if you say that on the field.