When to qualify

[thetrick]

There is a lot of sources that say to qualify only when you're pretty certain the target is attracted. But what do you do if you guys are chit chatting and she tells you something that can be used to qualify, yet she is not totally attracted? It seems like a bad idea to just ignore something you'd want to reward her for later because it would be incongruent to wait 5 minutes after a couple stories to ask for the information again AND then proceed to reward her for it. Wouldn't she be like, he didn't say nothin bout this before!

[failure_180]

I have gained excessive skills in the last year in Opening and Attraction. However, I don't know how to determine when I should advance nor do I know how to advance.

I've had girls and women express 5 IOIs simultaneously before, but I never advanced because I am clueless as to "how" to do this.

Help please?

[DanJer]

Dude.

If she does something you think is cool then let her know.

She says she skydived. "Wow thats cool. respect."

Don't think the 'rules' and 'method' are set in stone. They aren't. Calibration is more important than following the rules.

[The_Jedi]

Originally Posted by failure_180

I have gained excessive skills in the last year in Opening and Attraction. However, I don't know how to determine when I should advance nor do I know how to advance.

I've had girls and women express 5 IOIs simultaneously before, but I never advanced because I am clueless as to "how" to do this.

Help please?

As the TMM phases show, start qualifying her. You need to make her feel like you don't take just any woman home with you. She has to feel like you want to get to know more about her inner self, than just wanting to have sex with her. Of course, the big trick is not letting her know any of this part.

So qualify, hook and release a few times to seat that "good vibe" she feels whenever she gets one right and "obviously" pleases you.

That should usually go fairly quickly, then it's on to comfort. That's where you really have to start "vibing" with her, and sort of start playing off the cuff. Whatever the situation demands, I guess to explain it in it's simplest terms.

It's not absolutely crucial, but it is a definite advantage to be able to move or bounce the target singly. Some women are naturally defensive, so you might just have to put up with a night of hanging out with her friends, at least for a while.

[thetrick]

Originally Posted by failure_180

I have gained excessive skills in the last year in Opening and Attraction. However, I don't know how to determine when I should advance nor do I know how to advance.

I've had girls and women express 5 IOIs simultaneously before, but I never advanced because I am clueless as to "how" to do this.

Help please?

Oh dude, I totally can help you! You know hoop theory? Look, it's pretty simple. You throw out hoops in different sizes. First, start with a small hoop. Here's a small one: "Where are you from?" If she gives you an IOD like turning away or not answering, that tells you you're still in A2. If she says, Sicily and gives you a feeling that she wants you to know more, you know you're in A3. You should respond holy shit! I love sicily. Then throw a medium hoop. "Hey, if you could be anything in the world, without chance of failure, what would it be? And don't say princess." If she responds very happily and says, I want to be an actress then you say, "you're fucking with me, aren't you? You want to be an actress? God! I LOVE actresses. I have an x-gf who was an actress. I can't even talk to you now." And you turn away. Then when she reinitiates the conversation, do some more A2 stuff and come back with a bigger hoop. "Are you fun and spontaneous?" If she says yes, now you have a real reason to be in love with her.

Do you see how this works?