break up qualifier
Wonder what you guys think of this - I used it on a hired gun today and it led nicely into qualification. I told her how Id broken up with a girl the day before (true) and how it was difficult but I had to do it. Of course, she asked why and I said, 'well, she had some good qualities, but also some negative qualities.' She was of course desperate to hear what they were, and I told her. It was a great way of showing to her exactly what I expected from a girl, and led nicely into an idea I had there and then which was to get us to do a role play of a break up. I negged her saying I bet she was awful at breaking up with people, and of course she was like 'no Im not', and I challenged her to the role play, saying 'ok, you break up with me now', putting my hand up to my ear in a telephone sign so shed get the idea. I really hammed up the role play, pretending to be heartbroken one minute, then angry the next, and she really got into it, giggling away. I think Im gonna use this whole routine again as it sucked her into a drama and qualified her at the same time. It also let her know I was in demand with women.
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