Too much value

[Yeren]

I heard Future address this issue in a lecture. He said that there is no such thing as too much value. If it happens it means that you didn't qualify the girl enough. If the girl is qualified properly, she would feel lucky to have you because of your high value.

[luv_asa]

Originally Posted by Yeren

I heard Future address this issue in a lecture. He said that there is no such thing as too much value. If it happens it means that you didn't qualify the girl enough. If the girl is qualified properly, she would feel lucky to have you because of your high value.

I don't know what you're talking about, but pay attention to your goals. You DHV to raise your value above hers. You Qualify so you make the girl work for you so you're a challenge. People don't value what is given for free. When you've worked for something you psycologically value it more because you worked for it. Your target will feel lucky to have you because she worked for you and that you didn't throw yourself in her arms. If you ever have too much value, your target will think that you're too good for her and will be turned off.

[Colin]

Originally Posted by Yeren

I heard Future address this issue in a lecture. He said that there is no such thing as too much value. If it happens it means that you didn't qualify the girl enough. If the girl is qualified properly, she would feel lucky to have you because of your high value.

That's the truth really. In a sense you can have "Too Much" value even without trying. Sometimes a girl will give you that kind of credibility without you doing much more than "being" cool and carrying yourself well, that's why you really have to watch how you neg and how hard you throw in C&F. You don't want a girl to feel worthless. So in a way while you're qualifying her you also want to begin building comfort or "getting her comfortable".

The thing to keep in mind while qualifying is that girls are really adaptable. So part of qualifying is "allowing" her to comply with it and rewarding her. Escalate it, pace it and lead, if she's attracted to you then she'll go with it but she's gotta know she's at least getting somewhere.