Qualify after the kiss?

[thecloser32]

Is it possible to continue to qualify a girl, even after you kissed closed her? It's my belief that you need to continue to let the girl know, with subtle hints, that you are to be desired and that you are not like the rest of the guys she meets on a daily basis...so, how can this be done after you kiss? My situation is like this: I've known her only for a couple of weeks...crazy attraction going on and we've built comfort and everything with some qualifying included in that comfort building stage. I'm open to any comments so feel free.

[__The_Raven__]

I dont understand why you would want to qualify her that much. I mean, if you built attraction, qualified, built comfort, and k-closed, then what is the point in making her work even more?

Originally Posted by thecloser32

It's my belief that you need to continue to let the girl know, with subtle hints, that you are to be desired and that you are not like the rest of the guys she meets on a daily basis...

You've ALREADY demonstrated that you're different from the rest by DHVing and making her qualify herself to you. I think its overkill personally.

--Raven

[Sapien]

I have a friend who regularly "withholds kisses" from the girls he dates. After he's kissed them once, the next time the girl moves in for a kiss he'll move in too, but just brush her lips turn away. This drives them crazy, in a good way, and keeps them wanting more.

[Mooks]

yeah... I do the same thing. My girl and and I would make out and stop for a breath and then go in again, but i'd go in and then back out right when you think we'd lock lips... I grin mischeviously and she attacks me... good fun.

[_Cane_]

I remember someone on this forum explaining that you should qualify a girl periodically throughout your relationship. -Credit whomever said that, not sure what thread it was in. It makes perfect sense though. Otherwise she'll get bored. Common sense.