"Save me" look from hbs

kinski · #1 (**permalink**) 09-22-2007, 12:59 PM

One advantage I had while growing up was having a older sister who was pretty enough to do modeling work in catalouges. I would watch guys trying to pick her up everywhere we went, and learned what women respond to or turns them off by watching her responses.
One thing I learned quickly was the look of desperation she would give me when some afc was bothering her, doing it all wrong. We called it the "save me" look, and I would go in and take her away from the chump. I always remember how gratefull she was and how she saw me as a knight in shining armor. I have since done the same thing many times in the field, and I feel it is a powerfull sarging tool.Hbs are always being hit on by afc's without game. How many times have you been in a club and seen a chick trying to get away from some guy, trying to be polite to him but desperatly wishing her friends or some guy she knows will come along and " save" her?
Get in close, and try to meet her eye. Make guestures that show her you are concerned, like" is this guy bothering you" or " what an idiot"; when you see the "save me look" in her eyes, move in boldly use a line like " honey, where did you go? We were all looking for you". When you isolate her, you will find she is gratefull and usually be giving you a knight in shining armor look, and you can build from there and escalate. I have had great results with this, and it happens all the time in the field.
KINSKI

TheVoid · #2 (**permalink**) 09-24-2007, 02:38 AM

I can imagine how powerful this must be!

I have to admit I havent tried this out though.

Have you ever been wrong?

What happens after the save? How receptive are they to you?

kinski · #3 (**permalink**) 09-24-2007, 06:20 PM

It can be a powerfull tool, and not backfire, if you follow 2 steps with it; make sure he is not a husband or boyfriend and they are just having a bad day; listen to how they address each other, watch her eyes, if she looks at you with a bit of a pleading look, you can move in.
When you say your line and take her away from the AFC, you must DHV right away; she will be thinking in the back of her mind "im glad this guy took me away from that jerk, but will he be worse?" I give her a sypathetic smile and say "are you okay? My last girlfriend was a model and I had to do that all the time for her". This shows DHV by making her think models go out with you. I then go cocky funny with something like "I'm not going to save you again, though; you have to stop being such a cute little flirt!" This usually breaks the ice, and they give me kino, like a playfull punch on the arm. Make sure you give her a little personal space during this; the AFC usually was crowding in on her and she will be repelled by the same behavoir from you for a minute or two. Go to your most comfortable routine, and when you start getting IOI's, gently take her by the hand or elbow and isolate, she will be attracted to your alpha behaviour that she didn't get from the AFC.
I have had good luck with this, if you do it right everything in the female mind clicks right for seduction.

KINSKI

sampanye · #4 (**permalink**) 09-24-2007, 06:38 PM

This is just an amusing experience I've had with performing the 'save me' look:

I was at a club for the sole purpose of dancing. It was Mardi Gras weekend and somehow all the gay clubs and become flooded by sleazy, drunk straight guys. I was being followed around by several, as well as by a 30+ lesbian. I caught the eye of an obviously gay guy who I'd been talking to him briefly earlier. He was dressed in a giant pimp suit with flashy 'bling' etc. He came up and saved me. I was very appreciative and gave him a hug. We chatted for a short while, then HE made a move on me.

Turns out that Obviously-Gay-Guy was not so gay. Grr.

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What happens after the save? How receptive are they to you?

Most girls will be over-the-moon when they're saved. But it's definitely the time for an indirect approach. You just have to be really clear in this situation that you're NOT interested in her (at least... not until she's started thinking about you that way). The last thing a girl wants is to be saved from one chump only to be cornered by another.

dagger · #5 (**permalink**) 09-24-2007, 07:11 PM

bring her into your group if you're out with other guys and girls, don't isolate right away. if she likes your friends and is comfortable in your crowd, you're in good shape; if she makes friends with your female friends you're golden.

don't forget about her friends if they're there, since they will "help" her make up her mind about you...

good luck and take care,

The_Jedi · #6 (**permalink**) 10-06-2007, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by dagger

bring her into your group if you're out with other guys and girls, don't isolate right away. if she likes your friends and is comfortable in your crowd, you're in good shape; if she makes friends with your female friends you're golden.

don't forget about her friends if they're there, since they will "help" her make up her mind about you...

good luck and take care,

I've done this quite a number of times myself because I hate to see obviously drunk AFC's slobbering all over a lady (whether she's good looking or not). I have to admit, though, I've never thought about taking it to the next level. Hmmmm....