savoy qualification. rate my example and tips will help alot

[guru]

1. qualify: a)u seem german? e.g. b)u seem adventurous?

2. her response: yes


3. explore topic:

a)omg i love german girls.my ex-fiancé was German and we went over there and traced her whole family tree. It’s such a cool culture
compliment

b) omg i love adventurous people. they r u so full of life and really know how to enjoy themselves. so wats the most adventurous thing uve done. dont say running with scissors.


4. PULL BACK
if hb feels uncomfortable pull back by saying i cant even talk to u or too bad ur such a dork.

i was messing up when hb would show attraction and during qualification she was into it and i would say u cant handle me, this aint going to workout hb would say ok. after reading sinn post 10 times and savoy qualification u should only release if hb feels uncomfortable. and the number close wasnt working cause i would just neg them and ask them wats the most adventurous thing they have done but would never compliment them.

now e.g. a,b r takin from other pua i just want to chk if i have savoy method right, so any tips will help

[_Hollywood_]

Robot.

[ware_ru]

Yes, guru, that is the new model of qualification.

Note on the "adventurous" bit - I still don't exactly know whether it's actually supposed to mean adventurous or "adventurous" as a euphemism for sex. I remember reading late in TD's archive that after some time of using it and asking rapport questions (what's the most adventurous thing you've ever done) that he wasn't getting good responses and realized that when you ask "are you adventurous" you actually are asking "so... do you fuck? or are you lame?" But I think that's the only person I've ever heard talk about it like that - makes sense though.

[thetrick]

It seems too easy. Qualification should be more direct and personal. I mean, if you say something like, you seem adventurous, that's not personal enough - especially if someone likes you. Try saying something like, your job doesn't seem like it can really satisfy your sense of adventure, am I right? I don't know about the German thing. People can't help where they're from, nor can they help what they look like so this in a way is a superficial form of qualification.

Qualification is about getting deep and exploring a new level of connection that she has not had with many guys.

[TheVoid]

Lol.. Yep it seems robotic.

It would help drastically if you were sincerely interested in her for being X... They can just intuitively sense it..

[Crush85]

thetrick, im diggin it my man.

i'm trying to structure some good qualification questions, and your details are pimpin. thanks!

[Boogieman]

From what ive learned, and I may be wrong. You not going to really qualify her until the next day or so. Not on a deep level. You can qualify her on anything if you want to continue and try to Fclose. But your not going to change over anyone you just met you do that later. The point is getting her in rappore with you and comfortable enough to seal the deal... Hope this helps

[miaddict]

The 'adventurous' is ONE example of a quality/personality trait/attribute that you want her to qualify to you.

Replace by fun/intuitive/imaginative/independent/whatever screening you actually want in a woman for a LTR/SNL/MTLR.

You seem X. Are you X? is pretty small a hoop for her to jump through. Just because she says yes to it does not mean that she will go with you bungee jumping in Vanuatu.

Originally Posted by kblackmon919

From what ive learned, and I may be wrong. You not going to really qualify her until the next day or so. Not on a deep level.

You can start qualifying early, as soon as you sense attraction, assume attraction, or get attraction(after 3 IOIs or so). When you have options of women, you are not going to wait the next day to see if she's worth your time. If she feels qualified NOW, she will more likely want to see you tomorrow .

Qualification is also a segue into comfort as the latter reinforces the former. One thing I noticed is that when a woman feels qualified, she would want to open up to you and share more of herself. In that case, learn to shut the f--k up and actively listen.

[logic10]

Originally Posted by guru

1. qualify: a)u seem german? e.g. b)u seem adventurous?

2. her response: yes


3. explore topic:

a)omg i love german girls.my ex-fiancé was German and we went over there and traced her whole family tree. It’s such a cool culture
compliment

b) omg i love adventurous people. they r u so full of life and really know how to enjoy themselves. so wats the most adventurous thing uve done. dont say running with scissors.

guru, it sounds like you are totally excited that she said yes that she is adventurous when you asked "are you adventurous?"..sounds fake...

you should leave out the "omg i love adventurous people, they are so full of life...blah blah..." just say...awesome...then continue with "so what was the last adventurous thing you've done??"

you basically gave a bigger IOI than you should from a small hoop. just remember to match your IOI with the size of the hoop you're giving her.

[The_Jedi]

You're script has one flaw, though:

You: You seem like your the adventurous type.
HB: No, not at all.

Now what? If you're going to use a script, it works like a flowchart, and you have to options for however she may respond, but still be able to bring it back to the way you wanted it to end.