What do you make of this?

[jpham1209]

I'm posting here simply because I don't really know where this thread belongs, so please, bear with me.

I received a replied message from one of the girls that I'm currently sarging but don't know what to make of it. Maybe, you guys can help.

Here's the message that I sent her and her response:


----------------- Original Message -----------------


From: Jimmy
Date: Jul 30, 2007 2:41 PM


See, I knew you had a sense of humor, and judging from your MySpace picture, I was right. Smile more, dork! Mean people won't get any brownie points from me. ;]

--Jimmy



----------------- Replied Message -----------------



Jimmy,

Yes, I do have a sense of humor.

You asked me why I was unhappy/mean/etc the other day when we had lunch... I'll tell you why.

I only get 30 minute lunches. I even told you that. I planned on going straight to Subway, get our food and sit there to eat. You dragged me to Starbucks because you grabbed the wrong coffee, spilled it all over yourself and then dragged me to Crazy Shirts to get another shirt. I told you to meet with me later because I wanted to sit back in the office to eat and rest my feet from wearing heels. You said you don't want to make things complicated and made me go with you anyway. Even after I told you about my feet, you brought me to an eating area that was quite a walk! I don't know if you're being an ass or if you're just totally oblivious, but most people can take a hint when people say these things. I had less than 10 minutes to eat and I find that very unenjoyable.

That was inconsiderate and rude. I'm doing you a favor by telling you this so you'll know to not do anything similar like this to other people. You say you didn't want to make things complicated - Yeah, for yourself. Did you know made things complicated for me?

Maybe we started off on the wrong foot. From day one, you gave me a hard time with a lot of things. You made me feel like I'm a boring, uninteresting person. You made me feel like I'm a bitch.

I am not. You barely even know me.

So I'd really appreciate it if you stop giving me a hard time about everything. I love my life, I'm not angry at the world, I have a great sense of humor and yes, I go to Alpha Lounge a lot but I do have other hobbies as well. Don't be too quick to judge (like me being mean and boring).

I just wanted to tell you that. We're still friends, so don't make things weird when you see me. How many people you know would tell you all this?

Now you know something new about me; I'm real and honest.

See ya at Alpha Lounge!

No hard feelings,
HB


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In short, I see her at Alpha Lounge often, so I proceeded and attracted her friends, negged her, got her interest, received some kino, and left early to DHV.

The next day, while I was on my lunch break, I bumped into her and found out that she works only a block away from where I work, as a result, we hung out.

She was quiet, but at the time, I wasn't sure why, so I negged her about how she's so reserved and is such a dork for always being at the same lounge.

We had to cut our conversation short because we both were out of time and needed to get back to work; consequently, as I was leaving (acting as if I didn’t care where this was going), she stopped me offered a hug.

A day later, I sent her a MySpace message and received her long response.


Okay, so here are my questions:

1. Is she trying to qualify herself in this long response? I'm thinking yes because if she weren't, wouldn't it be simpler for her to reply with a shorter message or simply, completely ignore me for being too much of a "dick?"

2. Was I wrong for setting up so many hoops--"dragging" her from one place to another and having her wait for me, solely to test her limits?

3. Where do I go from here, and how do I respond to this shit-test letter, filled with IOD's, a few IOI's, and two qualifiers, saying that she's "real" and "honest"?

Any comment or advice is appreciated.

Thanks.
--Jimmy

[Alius]

Lmao I actualy dont know how to respond to this but say that; maybe she was being really honest and very strait up -may i say- with you. You did play the day game... and 90% of the time ppl during the day game have WAY less time, but I'm still an AFC and no one to talk about this. I'm just very intrested what the others on this forum have to say about this ^.^;;;

Learn more on your day game

[jpham1209]

You're right, I'm certain that she was being honest about how she would appreciate it if I stop giving me a hard time about everything; however, both you and I know that most, if not all, women say that they want one thing and in the end, go for the other.

The minute I start giving her an easier time, poof! She'll either disappear, vanishing without a trace, or switch into the I-like-you-only-as-a-friends mode. Thanks, HB, but I already have enough friends.

Thanks for posting, Alius. I, too, am interested in reading what others will say.

[jpham1209]

bump

[AllStar]

She said you made her feel like a bitch.

This is A3 time. You have to qualify her, say what you like about her and how that makes her rare and different. I think it may be too late but give it a shot. After that Move into comfort and don't tease or neg.

[jpham1209]

Originally Posted by AllStar

She said you made her feel like a bitch.

This is A3 time. You have to qualify her, say what you like about her and how that makes her rare and different. I think it may be too late but give it a shot. After that Move into comfort and don't tease or neg.

Thanks, AllStar. I was just thinking that exact same thought, but I have to be honest, A3 isn't my strong point; still, I'll give it my best shot.

If anybody has anything to add, please, do so. Thanks.

[NightFlex]

Do let us know the end result, seems like an interesting topic.