Text Game/Day 2 Sticking Point Help

[titusXII]

hey guys,

the other night i was out with some friends (guys and girls) at this club and an hour later a girl my age (18) joins us who happens to be the friend of one of my good guy friends. the three of us take some shots. soon enough we were all tipsy and having a great time. our whole group was walking outside past some small stores and we tried on sunglasses and all laughed. i took photos of us trying on glasses and then took some photos of part of the group which included the girl. i told her i was going to put them on facebook (which looking back at them, i'm not going to haha) and she said "add me" so i took out my phone, got on the internet and added her. i also told her to give me her number and she easily gave it to me. up until that point i had known her for about a half hour and hadn't directly spoken to her, just dhved by getting the group and her laughing and showing i was a sociable, fun guy. later we went to a different club in a smaller group with me, her, our friend, and about 4 other guys and girls. we drank some more, and then we started dancing. did some kino with her with light, fun dancing, but didnt pay her too much attention. i danced a lot more with this other girl with whom we agreed to pretend to be fake boyfriend/girlfriend to get into clubs just the two of us (we agreed to do this before the new girl came). so there was a sort of jealousy plotline which helped build attraction.

around 2 am, we were all pretty smashed, and it became hard to game her with a straight mind (note: i didnt go out that night to game, just to have a good time with friends regardless of outcome and i met the girl after i had already had a lot to drink so there you go ;p). it was hard to talk in the club which was loud as hell, so i take out my phone and write that we should go do a shot at this other club and that'd be back shortly to dance some more. she agreed and my guy friend who knew us both said okay. so we left, i builded some comfort with her on the way to this club, which was a good five minute walk. on the way there we met up with my friend who took photos of us as we posed. i dont remember what i talked about with her to build comfort, but it all seemed to be going pretty well. so we get to the club, i walk her up to this secluded place great for comfort because of its quiet nature overlooking the ocean, and i went down to get a drink (i think?), came back up, talked for about five minutes, then left the club. from there we met up with our friends again at that other club and then everyone got separated and i dont remember the rest of the night.

in any case, i text her the next night saying "hey [nickname i gave her the night before" followed by a cute joke my ten year old cousin told me. btw i'm from the states and the whole summer i've been in europe (i go to the same summer town every summer so this is where i met up with those people who normally live in this european country year round and i speak the language and it's my nationality). so i ask her the joke and sign it with /your favorite american.

so far so good. she gets the joke and replies with haha and the answer and asks me where i disappeared last night, signing the text with /your favorite [country we were in]." i reply telling her we were at my favorite club and that i didnt remember what happened after. i asked her if she got home okay and where she was staying. she responded she was staying at a place an hour away and that she got home okay and slept all day the next day and asked how i got back. so i reply saying out of our whole group i was the very last one to get back and that i would have to tell her in person the adventure i had even getting back to my place. i then told her that i love the place she's staying at and that the beaches there are so much warmer than the beaches at my place and my friends place (we live in the same small town). so i sort of wanted to test her to see if i could bait her to invite me to her beach and also to see if she would suggest meeting up. i didnt expect her to, just wanted to see if she would. i also asked her how long she was staying. so then she texts back, and this is our last text for the night, that if the water there is warm, she's lucky to be there but its still cold for her. she also said she was staying there till the end of the month (i told her in the previous text i was leaving in five days to go back to america).

i didnt find her last text to be worth replying to, so i didnt, although now i think i should have. this texting occurred at nightime btw. this girl happens to not be the hottest girl, maybe an hb7, and she seemed shy, so i'm wondering how my texting went and how i could have done better. i texted her today with a fun animal fact i found in this book of useless information, which i recommend any pua have because it's great for throwing out random, cool facts. she's an artsy girl who loves random stuff like that, but i didnt get a response yet.

my sticking point is that i get attraction and start to build comfort the first night i meet a girl, but then i have trouble holding on to it and although i dont consider my text game awful, though i do realize it could improve, i'm having trouble getting day 2's. i have this voice born from the community in the back of my mind that tells me when i text i should be clever, use tactics like push pull, be funny, but at the same time sometimes i just want to cut the bullshit and just say "hey [call back humor], last night was fun, you seem cool and have a great energy about you...our friends are going out clubbing again in a few days you should come because we're going to this really sweet club etc."

i have two important questions: how does the fact that we didn't kiss that night or have a ton of kino affect the situation? she must have had a decent amount of comfort to bounce to a new club with me that makes me think that regardless of being tipsy we could have made out easily. (note im not hyping up the kiss as some big thing, but its a good measure of how comfortable she is with you and i wanted to make a move to see where we stood but like i said we were both pretty drunk and i dont really remember what happened, though im positive neither of us did anything embarassing).

the other question is i know she was in a party emotional state with me that night and thus might think that the next day when i texted her and started asking how long she was staying, etc, and especially if i would ask her to hang out at a club in a few nights, that i was interested in just hooking up with her, which actually isnt true. this chick was seriously cool and i just want to see her again before i return to the states just because she was so chill. the night we clubbed i didnt convey my identity too well and who i well, thus not building a ton of verbal comfort with her, yet somehow, and maybe it is just my ability when im tipsy to do this, but i established rapport with her really quickly and maintained it throughout the night and things just seemed to click. despite this rapport, and i want to *** this point, she must be thinking in her head "sure i got along really great with this guy, but why does he want to see me again if we didn't really get a chance to discuss commanlities? i know we really clicked that night, but what compels me to see him again?"

lastly, is there any difference that i met her through a friend as opposed to a cold approach other than the added comfort aspect through the former?

this post has been pretty long and i definitely analyzed way too much into things, but im doing this because i am fairly new to the game and getting day two's with a girl is a sticking point of mine. it'd be great if some of the more advanced members could help me pinpoint my problems and just tell me some insights into what the girl must be thinking of the night and stuff like that.