Cant get the date -2 numbers

[All2Easy87]

Hey all, I recently gamed 2 girls, 1 at starbucks and 1 at a nightclub. Got both their numbers and gamed them both perfectly.

Been pretty much talking to both of them for the past week now, exchanging texts, talking on the phone for an hour or two here and there, and we hit it off pretty well. So heres the problem, I bring up a possible date in the future and it always seems like I cant get them to agree. Whats the deal? These girls are probably hb6 or so, I get the feeling that I come off as too much of a player, and i am intimidating them to the point that they are scared to go out and get totally swept off their feet by me. Feedback?

[Lansing]

Well, you gamed them perfectly so why come here for advice?

Leave the ego for when dealing with women. You didn't game them "perfectly" because otherwise you wouldn't be here. Let's try to keep it real on the forums.

First thing I noticed in your post was you said you talked to them an hour or two here and there. Personally, I think you are better off keeping conversations short and setting up a second meeting. How did you invite them out? That is a big part of the success on whether or not you will see her a second time. Did you make it something that required low effort on her part and low expectations (i.e. most girls cringe at the idea of a dinner date with a guy they don't know, I never do the dinner date thing until much later on).

It is tricky.... I am getting the same thing happening to me more often than I like but if we look at your situation in particular you might be able to improve the escalation by looking close what you are doing. BTW, what are the ages of these girls? Because I see you are young so girls that are younger than you might not be used to being randomly picked up and their friends might be warning them about hanging out with a stranger,etc

[Stinky]

I agree

When your talking to them on the phone find out what interests them and that where you should take them on dates to.

Or

Invite them to join you somewhere when your already out with your friends so if they flake out on you its no big deal

Then you can neg them for being flakes and that seems to get you further ahead

Nothing is ever for certain