another text game

[exorio]

I was planning to visit singapore next month for job thing, so I message a friend of mine. She's HB9, met her once back then, while I'm still an AFC, and barely did contacts. Just message her for every once in a while, talk usual stuffs, but not frequent. Could be a month or so just to say hi on the MSN. So I message her,

me : "Hey I'm planning to visit singapore next month"
HB : "Really? Just for vacation?"
me : " Nah... I just wanted to sleep on the park benches"
me : "Actually a company emailed me, and I want to pay a visit to them"
HB : "Oh for interview?"
me : "sort of"
me : "what was the places you reccomend me back then?"
HB : "What places?"
me : "night clubs"
HB : "Ohh. Depends. What music do you like?"
me : "well, let see Jaipongan, keroncong would be nice, dangdut are quite okay" (traditional, almost forgotten musics in our country, definitely not in the term "classy")
HB : "haha, you shouldn't bother going here to listen to those musics"
me : "Well, as they said, it's all about the ambience, not the place itself"
HB : "haha"
HB : "well, the crowds here are not good"
me : "really? why is that?"
HB : "not oke lah"
HB : "Less hapening"
me : "ungg... hapening?"
HB : "well, the point is not quite fun"
HB : "if you want to try anyway, you can check out clarke quay"
me : "do you still go there frequently?"
HB : "not really"
HB : "I barely out lately"
HB : "lots of work todo"
HB : "haha"
HB : "tough"
me : "you work for live, not the other way around "
me : "where do you work now anyways?"
HB : "yea thats what im trying to say"
HB : "haha "
HB : "living in sg is tough man"
HB : "property is up"
HB : "I'm still in interior designer firm"
HB : "I'm just an interior designer"
me : "My friends there are not night club type"
me : "I'll tell you what. If you accompany me once, I'll let you buy me a drink okay? "
me : "At least I know the place"
HB : "haha"
HB : "i;ll see abt that"
HB : "I'm always sleeping back from work at night"
HB : "I wont be connected"
me : "it's a deal then"
me : "btw are you still in office?"
HB : "no I'm home"
me : "Can I see your portfolios?"
HB : "my portfolios are at the office"
HB : "=)"
me : "oh okay then"
me : "BTW thanks. I want to go to sleep now"

input plz?

[exorio]

ops. I think I misplaced this one too. Missed "online game" sub forum. sorry bout that.

[Lansing]

In case this gets transfered to the right forum, I will respond with some advice..

I don't think you built up any tension.. Instead of jumping right into "hey, might be going next month to your country" stuff you could have had a brief "hey, how's it going" type thing or some other random conversation...

I would focus on getting her out to a "club" either.. You will get a lot further outside of clubbing with her I think

[exorio]

I might want todo some night games at singapore later so well, my thought is that I wanted to get her as pivot and gaming her aswell.

I actually wanted to start it as habit not saying "how's it going" anymore. Don't want to be the "regular guy" anymore

what do you think jumping to that topic makes her think?

[exorio]

bump. Inputs please? Is it good? if it is, where should I go from there? Is it bad? What goes wrong?