Text message for after she doesn't return your call.

[Herschie]

I was sitting at home thinking about what to send a girl if she doesn't return my call. What I was thinking is that I wanted to bust on her for it, yet in a way that doesn't convey hostility. So, this is what I came up with:

"U didn't call me back. now im sad. do u want me to be sad? i sit on the couch all day eating ice cream watching the golden girls when im sad."

I tried that on an HB7, she called me back, and we have plans for today. I'll ponder on ways to improve that one, but if anyone has any suggestions on how I can make this better, either by wording it differently, different show, or something, I'm all ears.

[theagx]

Im new to the game, so this may not be good advice, but I think your tx sounds needy. It suggests you were sitting staring at your phone.

I'm in a similar situation. I had a day2 on Sat. She txd me Sat night to say she had fun/thanks; I called her later to banter. Since then, she hasn't contacted me and it is Tuesday now. I guess I am going to have to be the one to re-establish the contact, but from what Ive learned so far, it needs to be in a non-clingy way.

I'm surprised that you had a good result with yours. It seems that the girl is going out with you because she doesn't want you to be sad - or that could be how she is seeing it subconciously?? That doesn't scream "attraction".

I think the goal would be to send a (negging, or C/F) tx that keeps the flow, but suggests you don't care. I guess sending her a tx kinda shows this subtly anyway.??? I dunno. ???

Hope that helped :S

[Lansing]

The best result I have had is by ignoring that it ever happened. In a few days text her something randomly and see if she responds (not completely random, something postive, something interesting, etc). Your text will not do much to build attraction. First, even if she does get it is a joke it is way too long/build up for a text message. It doesn't seem "Casual".

As an outsider it is much easier to see people's mistakes so don't that this harshly. Just try to change your mindset to one of abundance.