If you leave a message, you need to provide some form of value.
Most guys will call up and say "Hi. It's ____. Call me back. Bye".
Congratulations. You are now one of the group "lame guys she met at the bar". You have just removed any difference in her mind between yourself and "other guys". You are one of the pack and she can safely ignore you.
If you are going to leave a phone message (I recommend against it), do something a little creative.
"Dude, I have to tell you something AMAZING! So today (you won't believe this) I-" *click*. She will wonder what it was you were going to say before you got disconnected. Try something different. |