No fear in Opening/approach... - Page 6 - The Attraction Forums

lolzilla · #51 (**permalink**) 08-28-2008, 01:16 AM

Guys, props to Humourus. I've done all three days and this stuff just helps to get into a wider frame of mind. It shows you how to manipulate a social interaction that most people are terrified of. It's not even hard, really. It's just getting you out of your comfortable little bubble. It's like, pop that bubble and go meet people already.

dhies · #52 (**permalink**) 08-28-2008, 09:52 AM

Awesome post as usual HumorUS!

HumorUS · #53 (**permalink**) 08-29-2008, 07:53 AM

thanks bro, i appreciate that.

smilenbseen · #54 (**permalink**) 08-29-2008, 08:55 AM

I enjoyed the post, I think I will skip to the 3rd part and try the crash course. I could really care less if a girl I will never meet again rejects me so although I may be a bit nervous just like if I approach a guy out of the blue, it's normal so I deal with it and move on. Luckily when I was real young I had this black friend that lived in the ghetto, I'm pretty silver spoon myself. Anyway I was always nervous around girls and he was like when you talk to a girl who cares what happens you will never see her again anyway so really why do you care? He would be pretty forward and just say hey lets go out or something like that. He was 14 at the time, I probably would have been an AFC for a much longer time if I hadn't been his friend. Still took me 9-10 years to get over a lot of AFC stuff.

GreatOne · #55 (**permalink**) 09-06-2008, 01:14 PM

I'm doing day 1 tonight.

I posted a on pg1 that I would try your stuff out but I never did ( never went out to club/bar before-one time when I first read about PU and I didn't last 20 mins until I flew home with my tail between my legs, plus I was solo)

I finally got out with a good pua in my area and I finally vibed in a bunch of clubs/bars in one night. I finally got out of my comfort zone and did it. Last Fri and Sat no closes or nothing just trying to open whoever I could. Although, I have serious AA problems and I can barely think of anything to say when I'm cold approaching, once It gets warmer and after like 2 mins of talking I get comfortable IF I didn't get blown-out.....I know for sure that I didn't get enough sets opened that weekend, I was at war with my mind and body!!!.....which is all odd because in the day I'm a social guy working at the register in the middle of Detroit!

Anyway, all I'm trying to say is that I'm out there! Only one weekend but I'm out!

Last night, went to a strip club......I drove solo, walked in solo, and sat down solo.....vibed with a stripper (me and her were teasing some of the cutomers and other strippers- It was fun) like 20 mins later my friend came to talk to me....so I'm proud of my self here too because I feel ready to go out on my own now.

I'm thinking I am going out tonight regardless, but I kept thinking I don't have any kind of game to approach, I want to internalize MM for now and follow the m3 model but before I can even practice it I have to learn to open! Thats when I remembered your post, I knew thats exactly what I needed....A freakin cannon ball to take out the AA!

and Tonight I'm doing day 1 that you posted. Bottom line. I'm doing it. Realization.

aDarkBorg · #56 (**permalink**) 09-06-2008, 01:38 PM

humrous great posts m8, got any more?

HumorUS · #57 (**permalink**) 09-06-2008, 01:57 PM

Yeah, i've learned alot of stuff.

Let me know what you need help with, and i'll try my very best to help you out.

PM me if youre not comfortable talking on the board.

The same goes for all of you, I love to help people out as best i can. I really want to be an instructor one day.

smilenbseen · #58 (**permalink**) 09-06-2008, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GreatOne

I'm doing day 1 tonight.

I posted a on pg1 that I would try your stuff out but I never did ( never went out to club/bar before-one time when I first read about PU and I didn't last 20 mins until I flew home with my tail between my legs, plus I was solo)

I finally got out with a good pua in my area and I finally vibed in a bunch of clubs/bars in one night. I finally got out of my comfort zone and did it. Last Fri and Sat no closes or nothing just trying to open whoever I could. Although, I have serious AA problems and I can barely think of anything to say when I'm cold approaching, once It gets warmer and after like 2 mins of talking I get comfortable IF I didn't get blown-out.....I know for sure that I didn't get enough sets opened that weekend, I was at war with my mind and body!!!.....which is all odd because in the day I'm a social guy working at the register in the middle of Detroit!

Anyway, all I'm trying to say is that I'm out there! Only one weekend but I'm out!

Last night, went to a strip club......I drove solo, walked in solo, and sat down solo.....vibed with a stripper (me and her were teasing some of the cutomers and other strippers- It was fun) like 20 mins later my friend came to talk to me....so I'm proud of my self here too because I feel ready to go out on my own now.

I'm thinking I am going out tonight regardless, but I kept thinking I don't have any kind of game to approach, I want to internalize MM for now and follow the m3 model but before I can even practice it I have to learn to open! Thats when I remembered your post, I knew thats exactly what I needed....A freakin cannon ball to take out the AA!

and Tonight I'm doing day 1 that you posted. Bottom line. I'm doing it. Realization.

Dude I would stay out of strip clubs, they can get you in more trouble than they are worth. There you are paying for what you are trying to work for somewhere else. Going out sarging alone is not easy, but sometimes it is a necessary evil. If you are going out alone I'd do day game, work on girls at the mall. If your AA is really really bad which it is for lots of people, try to find something that will calm your nerves but keep you alert.

GreatOne · #59 (**permalink**) 09-07-2008, 04:33 PM

Mission failed, but not exactly I had serious matters to attend to so I couldn't go out.

smilenbseen, thanks for your input.

I'm going out again tonight with the pua I mentioned earlier so we'll see what happens.

napjohn8 · #60 (**permalink**) 09-07-2008, 04:59 PM

hey humourus i am really trying to figure out how you discovered that opener dude. Well here is one that i was tried and it is really funny

Get someone to text you "your hot!"

When a girl makes strong eye contact with you take out your phone
Have a puzzled look on your face with the text and make your way over to her

Go up to her and say did you text me, and be like listen I know you’re a shy girl, run banter and then tell her you could’ve just said that to me in person, then be like give me your number I will text you back with “I know”

Honestly its soo funny and ballsy that she wont know what happened but leave it as an open loop so she doesn't know what your text says.