shit testing? flakey?

[JasonPower111]

I started talking to this OLDER woman (4 years older than me) I found online on-and-off again for about 6 months now. I gamed her to the max, and she told me she wanted to meet me and fuck me, because she was so horny and into me and my interesting stories/conversations with her.
She really is horny, she told me stories about meeting guys off the internet and having sex with them and shit... especially army guys because they jacked. She also likes having sex with guys who aren't from her town, because she hates eating where she shits. We both go to the same school though, and she is ok with that.
We had cyber sex on the phone and IM a few times. I stopped and told her I only do the REAL thing. She said the IM is fun though.
We set a time/place to meet, I went there, I saw her from a distance, and since it was my first online meet up, I chickened out and did not officially meet her. I know.
I gave her some bull shit story why I couldn't come, so we planned a second time. The second time, I was really willing to meet her, she did not show, and told me she felll asleep on her couch.
The third time, she said she does not want to meet, and never wanted to. That she does not know what she wants right now... doesn't want to get hurt... etc... I gamed her a lot more, and after about 30 minutes on IM, she told me to come over her place the next day, she'd cook me dinner, we would eat, then fuck. My friend died that day, so I did not go, and I could not tell her I was coming. She got pissed, even after I explained everything.
After MUCH convincing and talking to her, I influenced her to meet me a forth time. She said only if I buy her dinner, I said I don't buy dinner the first date. After several minutes of more talking, she was convinced to meet again, but not for a few weeks because she is very busy.
I IMed her today, and said I was looking foward to finally meeting her soon. She said that that was never established, she did not want to meet and that we never agreed on meeting again. She called me moody.
After 30 minutes of IMing, she said she actually wants to meet and that she changed her mind. I asked her whats with the change in mind, she said she's a woman and women are like that. She said she wants to meet for coffee in a few days. I asked her if she was going to forget about it and act like we never agreed on it like she has done the past few times, and she angrily said NO.
So what is this girl doing? Shit testing? Being flakey? Does she want to meet or not? Is it over? What's her deal?
Thoughts?

[icefyre]

I, personally, would just game another chick. You've invested too much time in this one to have not even met her yet.

My general rule is this: online chat twice max! number close or date close, preferably the latter.

The first chat is always kept to a minimum, maybe 15 minutes tops. The second can be a bit longer.

Back to the topic... this is the nature of most women! You sound like you just want to bone the chick, which is fine, I guess. She sounds like a bit of a headcase though.

Just wondering, what part of the country do you live in and what website are you meeting these crazies on?