I am meeting her at a club for the first time tomorrow night

JasonPower111 · #1 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 08:09 PM

I messaged this random (older) HB9 on myspace today, and we really hit it off. I played cocky funny game and she loved it. I could tell she was really attracted.
There is a huge event at a club tomorrow night... Basically a reunion for a group of people who went on a trip to Europe.... which I went on last year... I am going to the party/club, so I invited her to be my date, and she agreed and said she could meet me there. She will go there right after work and I will meet her at the club.
We never spoke on the phone... yet... but texted a few times...
So what should I do? This is my first time doing something like this.
How should I be tomorrow night with her? What do I do the first moment I meet her?
A lot of my friends (guys on the trip) and my ex girlfriend is going to be there. How can I use this to my best advantage? I do not want anything awkward to happen...
Tips? Advice?
Thanks

Nicknock · #2 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 09:04 PM

Make sure the promoter makes you look good...you have that going for you...it's a DHV and social proof. Your friends that are there are going to be social proof too, unless they are the awkward guys who stand around with their arms folded. When you see her, be confident...remember she has to impress you, you have nothing to lose, if she is lame...dude you're in a club, use that to your advantage..if she really is as hot as you say and she is lame, other chicks will see you with her and that's pre-selection right there. Overall though, go and have a good time, be fun, be confident and be GROOMED!

JasonPower111 · #3 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 10:52 AM

should i call her first?

HumorUS · #4 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 10:59 AM

First thing you should tell her is, "wow you look way better on myspace"

Be playful about it , or you'll get slapped.

Rusty7 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 11:03 AM

If you have something to say, sure. Don't just call her for the sake of calling her.

And yes, be well groomed looking sharp.

JasonPower111 · #6 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 03:51 PM

define well groomed

Nicknock · #7 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 04:33 PM

shave, brush your teeth, get a shower, trim your eye brows, groom down below, make sure no moles have hair coming out of them, do your hair, make sure your lips arent chapped, no nose hairs poking out, clean nails, trimmed nails, no loose skin around your nails, D.O. for the B.O., and a good cologne...for god sakes no axe!

JasonPower111 · #8 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 11:02 PM

SO I just got back from the club.
i told her to meet me at the club at 9... i got there at 9... she came at 10...
when she got there... we danced a little at first... she was being awkward with dancing... so i led her to the bar... she offered me a drink and i took it... and went and sat and talked in a private area... I ran the FIVE QUESTIONS routine (lying game II) with her... and told her lets bet on something... i asked her what shed like to bet on...
she said if she wins she wants have sex with me... i wasnt sure if she was being serious... so i said seriously? and she said yes i find you attractive... i still didnt buy it... it seemed too fake... a shit test... because we just met 20 minutes ago and it was too good to be true... i told her to be serious... and she said: ok buy me a drink if i win and vice versa... as we were about to play... someone called her and she said she really needed to take it so she was going outside to talk... she told me to come with her... but i didnt want to be that guy who follows her and shit... that lackey... so i said id wait for her at the couch... but i didnt obviously... i left... and went to the dance floor
30 minutes later she is no where to be seen... i text her: "u still here?"
no response from her
15 minutes later i run into her... and she is with another guy (a big fat ugly amog... no joke)... and they are holding hands... i say to her "hey whats up? what happened?"
she replies "oh i know this guy from before... weve met before... im gonna stay with him"
and the guy goes "yo dude shes with me... back off"
i say to her "ok so ill let you two be alone" (acting as the prize) and i walk away...
i did see them again 10 minutes later... and she was grinding the shit out of him and being super slutty with him for some reason...
but after that i never saw them agian..

thoughts?
what went wrong? what could i have done to save this?

mindquicken · #9 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 11:29 PM

it's very obvious where you went wrong. i don't understand why you didn't just fuck her. you were way too self-concious and not in the moment.

Nicknock · #10 (**permalink**) 08-14-2008, 02:20 AM

the situation sounds like it sucked, but if i were you, i'd be glad i didn't fuck her...who knows what kind of shit she has if she is that slutty, you met online, met each other for 20 minutes and she is talking about sex already? Too easy dude, your peter would probably rot off. her loss man, but your gain...at least you don't have aids! if she tries to contact you...ignore it. delete her from what ever site you found her on and delete her from your phone.