get her out of her computer chair

[JasonPower111]

Whats the best way to get a girl off her computer chair and come meet you?
this seems to be my major sticking point...

I find a girl online (i.e. POF), I game her, she is really into me, as we spend hours IMing each other
but as soon as I say something like, "I am going to the mall tomorrow, want to join me?" or "Would you like to chill?" all hell breaks lose and they get defensive and say no.
If I get their number and talk to them after the online game, they still do not want to meet most of the time. Why?
I even accuse them of being a 55 year old male stalker beforehand so they can't use that against me.

How do I transition them from online to meeting me in person? Whats the fastest and most effective way? Thoughts?
Thanks

[jarryd09]

Originally Posted by JasonRusso123

Whats the best way to get a girl off her computer chair and come meet you?
this seems to be my major sticking point...

I find a girl online (i.e. POF), I game her, she is really into me, as we spend hours IMing each other
but as soon as I say something like, "I am going to the mall tomorrow, want to join me?" or "Would you like to chill?" all hell breaks lose and they get defensive and say no.
If I get their number and talk to them after the online game, they still do not want to meet most of the time. Why?
I even accuse them of being a 55 year old male stalker beforehand so they can't use that against me.

How do I transition them from online to meeting me in person? Whats the fastest and most effective way? Thoughts?
Thanks

I've laid 6 girls from online within the last little while. That's not even that much, but considering I don't game girls online that much it's not *too* bad.

This is what happens when I game online. I DON'T...spend hours on the I.M... why? because IM BUSY. even if you arent, just ACT busy. 'heyy! i can only stay for a bit cause i gotta go to *insert wicked, cool event here*'. Chat her up for 7-10 minutes, and leave.

Once you have their number, DONT TALK TO THEM online anymore, or do so rarely. you need to ESCALATE. why would you go backwards if youre already talking on the phone? and again..once enough attraction is built over the phone (shouldn't take a lot of phone calls to do this), set up a day / night to hang out.

PS. If you dont think you have built a comfortable connection with her over the phone, she wont feel comfortable hanging out with you, period. Talk about her sisters or brothers, share stories, you NEED some sort of connection to make it not awkward.

[JasonPower111]

What do you say to them when you first call them when they give you their number?
What is a good first line?

[jarryd09]

Originally Posted by JasonRusso123

What do you say to them when you first call them when they give you their number?
What is a good first line?

man..

its not about *one-liners*. its not 'what do i say when?'. Its all about calibration. but ill help you out this time.

you DONT make it awkward. first thing you say is 'hey whats up crazy girl?! (or if you have given her a name you tease her with, use it!). followed by 'i have the CRAZIEST / FUNNIEST story that just happened to me'.

EVEN if the story is bullshit, just make one up to get the convo goin, and trust me the convo will move smoothly from there.

[JasonPower111]

thanks
what sites do you use to pick up girls?
which websites have you been successful with?

[Fresno Smooth]

check out Cajuns on line game thread at the top
its sticky

there are some great tips in there
one of my faves is getting them off of POF ASAP
its like a security blanket for them
get them on msn or the phone and the commitment level goes up