A direct opener....

What lies beneath · #1 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 01:10 PM

hey guys, i have been using this opener online and have gotten real good results with it. here it is......

ten things i hate about you...

sexy
hot
attractive
gorgeous
captivating
amazing
terrific
awesome
delightful

if you notice, i only wrote NINE. this is my intent. for the girls who say thank you....you can qualify them, by asking..."so, what else do you have going for you more than your looks?"(Mystery) or...you can give them shit for not paying attention to detail of what you wrote.

it they say..."those are 9" you can give them shit about being conceited and greedy, and she cant take all the good words. you can qualify her on the response too. heres an example from a girl i met online.....

ME: (my beginning opener)
HER: "those are nine..."
ME: "stop being so conceited and greedy. you cant have all the good words"
HER: "im not conceited or greedy. you're the one throwing compliments. i did not ask for them, nor did i sulk about them"
ME: "yeah, i know. im just giving you shit. true you didnt ask for them or sulk about them, but i gave you the nine compliments anyway. my intent was to only give you nine....to see if you would actually pay attention to what i wrote. you have an eye for detail. a good quality to have."
HER: "i do pay attention to detail"
ME: "and this correlates with being intelligent. not smart, but intelligent. someone can be book smart, but not street smart, or the other way around. one without the other is a bad thing. so, besides being intelligent, what else do you have going for you more than your looks?
HER: "I have my own house. Work two full time jobs.[and also Work for a record label writing articles for their magazine.] I am going to school to be a cryologist. [when organ donors die i preform the surgery to get their organs ready for transplant] and still manage to have fun."

no matter what response any of the girls gave me from my opener...i could easily start to qualify them. i online tested it many times. feel free to use or modify it. NOTE: you can make up your own compliments if you want. when i wrote the nine words, they were at random.

What lies beneath · #2 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 01:47 PM

you might get a curve ball thrown at you....like what just happened to me. she will say...."and yet you know nothing about me"....heres what happened...

ME: (the opener)
HER: "and yet you know nothing about me"
ME: "i dont have to know anything about you. sometimes....just sometimes...one can have an intuition about you. but hey, i could be wrong. someone else can have a change of heart."
HER: "okay, i can understand that"
ME: "name three things your friends like about you..."

from here, she put her defense down, and i continued to game her as normal, and qualified her.

mrgravez · #3 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 02:07 PM

What's your response rate with this opener?

I find the opener to be at least kind of creepy and AFC-ish.

It falls almost into the same category as:

- "Hey, you're hot"
- "Want to hook up"
- "You are absolutely stunning"

Although I don't really do much or any online game I have a 100% success rate (5/5 HB7+) by just messaging a personalized 2-3 lines stating something I thought was interesting in their profile and telling them that I have a lot of the same interests (even if I don't) as them.

This gets them to actually read my profile where I have a very well written and thoughtful description of myself, who I am, and what I like to do with myself and my life. It's never good to start off an online description of telling a girl that she is sexy, hot, etc, even if it's in a cocky/funny way with only listing 9 things instead of 10.

What lies beneath · #4 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 09:38 PM

its just like Mystery using..."you know why you suck....?" i did mine in a different matter though. true, im saying my compliment they get all the time, but im saying them all at once and the fact...thats what i hate about them. i used it on 10 girls. i have gotten 10 responses back. i was able to easily qualify them. some things i used were..."what else do you have going on for you other than your looks"..."what are three interesting things about yourself to make me wanna get to know you better" and "what are three things your friends like about you?" they all jumped through any one of the hoops i gave them.

when they gave me three qualities about themselves....i put them on a point system. i gave them a couple of points for each thing they told me(kept it under 20 points), and said if they make it to 30 pts, i would let her be my friend.

the point system is made up by Style in the..."annihilation method."

Fresno Smooth · #5 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 09:47 PM

try it out
its not really my style thought
seems fake to me
but let us know

What lies beneath · #6 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 09:52 PM

im just saying what i online tested and got good results on. it's up to you, if you want to use it or not. i used the point system twice online already and got positive feedback. but hey, it might not work for someone else. im just giving other things to use that i tried and it worked.

Fresno Smooth · #7 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 09:58 PM

i wasnt knocking you
but totaly let us know if you get any day 2s

What lies beneath · #8 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 10:05 PM

oh yeah...no doubt. ill even tell you if it doesnt work out.