Online Statistics!!!

GABBO · #1 (**permalink**) 08-10-2008, 03:41 PM

Last night i was listening to the radio and while i was lestening to the radio, they were talking about online dating sites.

They were saying that just in New york alone 4million people use them every day of the week, they said a few other states but can't remember the statistics.

Aperently here in Australia RSVP is the biggest dating site there is, and not only that they were saying that 33% of women who meet up offline are willing to sleep with the guy on the first date, because they feel like they already know the guy.

Now i'm a little curious to know something, if guys such as us who know how to game girls or are learning the game etc, would'nt our statistics rise up to say like 56%?. And would'nt they rise up for you guys who are and have been in the game for a while who have social dynamics?.

Now if 33% of girls who sleep with guys on the first date off the net, which is a pretty high statistic if you think about. If us guys who know the game, aproach girls in person get there number and manage to get a date etc, would'nt our percentage go up higher? may sound like a silly question, but i'm still reading threads where guys are saying that they don't get laid on the 1st 2nd or sometimes even the 3rd date, and yet we know about the game?

I mean if these girls who are meeting off the net, sleep with the guys on the 1st date, and then yet meet a guy in person and it takes 2-4dates to sleep with them, what is it they we are doing wrong?.

hopefully that makes sense lol.

Folsom · #2 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by GABBO

Now if 33% of girls who sleep with guys on the first date off the net, which is a pretty high statistic if you think about. If us guys who know the game, aproach girls in person get there number and manage to get a date etc, would'nt our percentage go up higher? may sound like a silly question, but i'm still reading threads where guys are saying that they don't get laid on the 1st 2nd or sometimes even the 3rd date, and yet we know about the game?

I mean if these girls who are meeting off the net, sleep with the guys on the 1st date, and then yet meet a guy in person and it takes 2-4dates to sleep with them, what is it they we are doing wrong?.

hopefully that makes sense lol.

IMHO, the mistake that most men make in online dating is to rush things along. They meet a girl online, and as soon as she replies to an email they're pushing to meet in the real world. This is a serious mistake because it leads to awkward uncomfortable dates where the girl wants nothing more than to leave.

A better approach is to run game on half a dozen girls simultaneously, doling out an email or txt msg here and there. After a few weeks of this, you'll carve out a little spot in her heart. Once you've done that she'll be all too eager to ask YOU out.

When you do this, the first date is completely different. Once you've done this, she'll be eager to qualify HERSELF, because she's totally feeling you at this point. And having sex with you is a great way to qualify her self.

Once you've got that down, it's time for the advanced course, which is right here:

http://www.theattractionforums.com/f...-new-post.html

GABBO · #3 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 02:29 PM

That maybe the reason i can't get 9's and 10's off the net, i can get 6's and 8's no worrys with in 1 to 4 emails but when it comes to 9's and 10's it just does'nt work out.

Folsom · #4 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 03:22 PM

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That maybe the reason i can't get 9's and 10's off the net, i can get 6's and 8's no worrys with in 1 to 4 emails but when it comes to 9's and 10's it just does'nt work out.

I've been running game online for YEARS and I hooked up with a ten exactly ONCE on a first date. It was just completely random. She had moved to town recently, and just seemed to be in a big hurry to get laid. I emailed her on a Friday, chatted on a Monday afternoon on IM at work, then met for dinner that night. I was running my "normal" game on her and she just seemed to be in a big hurry to cut dinner short and have sex. It was bizarre. She wasn't a MILF or a Cougar either - she was 25 or 26 (I was 32 at the time.)

She never talked to me again, so buyer's remorse must have kicked in.

Even while I was at her place I got the vibe I'd never see her again, she was giving me the impression that she felt like a slut for being so quick to have sex, and was a bit embarrassed that she'd been so easy.

In my experience, the fives and the sixes are a lot more care free about who they sleep with, and buyer's remorse is less of an issue.

Personally I'm not a big fan of one night stands, I'd much rather have half a dozen regular girlfriends. Once you get a good rotation going you only have to replace girls as they drop out, and it's not as frequent as you might think.

GABBO · #5 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 03:48 PM

Yeh i'm with you i'm not a big fan of ONS either i've had a couple and there not as great as everyone says.

Not only that if you have a couple on going girls for casual encounters you feel liike your on the top of the world, heck even 1 girl i feel like i'm on top of the world lol.

But when i mean i'm not getting 9's and 10's off the net i mean i'm not even gettting numbers i can sometimes get msgs but i think i do push it to far and always ask for a number with in the first few msgs, (as i'm not a big fan of emailing and talking online) i even say that to get the numbers, but when it comes to 9's and 10's they just don't seem to budge, i'll try the 20min talking thing with them, and see what happens.

Folsom · #6 (**permalink**) 08-12-2008, 05:17 PM

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Yeh i'm with you i'm not a big fan of ONS either i've had a couple and there not as great as everyone says.

Not only that if you have a couple on going girls for casual encounters you feel liike your on the top of the world, heck even 1 girl i feel like i'm on top of the world lol.

But when i mean i'm not getting 9's and 10's off the net i mean i'm not even gettting numbers i can sometimes get msgs but i think i do push it to far and always ask for a number with in the first few msgs, (as i'm not a big fan of emailing and talking online) i even say that to get the numbers, but when it comes to 9's and 10's they just don't seem to budge, i'll try the 20min talking thing with them, and see what happens.

I posted an answer to this in my thread here : How to Date Tens You Meet Online : The Folsom Method