She doesn't ask questions

[thethinblueline]

So I've been messaging this girl on facebook, and I think things are going well but I'm not sure.

With every response, her messages get longer and more in-depth. I might write a paragraph or two... she writes three or four. Often, she elaborates well beyond my original questions.

The thing is... she doesn't ask me anything. Not one question. I've totally led the conversation so far.

Any ideas?

[exorio]

caught in this kind of situation before. I think you're too eager to make contacts with her frequently. She was on a study abroad. When she return to our country I already ended up in LBJF zone. She asked me to go out, but never just the two of us alone, she invited at least one of our friend.

Try to be silent for couple of days, weeks. Just wait. Not litterally WAIT for her response. Get on with your life, go out, have fun while she's not responding for days. IF she don't respon, then move on. If she responded, well I would've game her and see the result. Game other women aswell. Surely there're alot of good women out there for you besides her.

[thethinblueline]

Well, that could be it...

But she always responds faster than I do. My responses have come usually around 24 hours later. All of hers have been within 12 hrs and one was just 2 hours later.

?

[exorio]

You even counted the hour. That's not healthy. You're started to become obsessed with her. Go out. Do field training game out there. Leave your computer.

[bravo29]

She is either:

a) clueless about communication and doesn't know to ask questions... hard to believe people go through life not learning this, but it happens OR

b) is intentionally doing it and the reasons for that can range (i.e., has really high standards, wants to be pursued like crazy, or might just be rude and awnry like me... Confessions of a hard-to-get, I do that on purpose to some guys and sometimes they didn't do anything wrong, maybe I'm just bored, not interested, or feel like being awnry to see how they respond next)...

If I was interested and someone was doing that to me, I would:

Pull the "truth game" on her... "Let's play a game..." and make her ask you a question about you that she thinks you'd never want her to know... vice versa... it's a good icebreaker and way to force someone into asking you questions to keep convo going...This game is also easy to transition to offline/phone calls/etc.

Or, if you don't want to get that "intimate" with her, then I would do something like this in my next response to her wall:

"WOW, you ask really hard questions, but since you asked..." and then just make up something really far-fetched/crazy/funny that she would have never asked you... and then follow up with, "any other questions for me?"

[ZenMonk]

a lot of girls never ask any questions, even the occasional smart one. not necessarily a bad sign, but it could be. depends on the girl