What went wrong with this girl

[Celdasucks213]

Me: Hey u r sorta cute, but that pretty common on here. Is there more than meets the eye

Her: sorta cute???

Me: yeah. dont be picky. thats all ur going to get from me. well is there more.

Her: your not that cute to be talking to a girl like me like that.. dont get it twisted

Me: "get it twisted" love that song. well i guess there isnt anything bout other than you being arrogant. oh well

Her: damn right. see ya...

What went wrong.. I kinda fell shitty. That pretty much fuck up my day

[Cydonia]

To my uneducated eye, you tried the cocky funny, but without the funny part. There was no indication that you were teasing, or being playful. More smilies required.

[sdnightfly]

Zero attraction, poor rapport and you went defensive. The neg wasn't bad but were you expecting her not to say anything back? She's just dishing out what you were serving her.

Keep going. One person out of many, nothing special.

There are also times a guy and a girl will get into arguing and name calling, and totally fall head over heels for each other.

You weren't the prize. This time.

[Mowglii]

arrogance was the killer blow

[DeadEyeDick]

+1 x2 to all of the above ... you came across differently than you intended.

Teasing is a combination of things that pull in and push away playfully.

Your pushing away wasn't playful. As said before, use SMILIES:

[Hitman47]

I actually think the first line was well builded. but then on the second u went all on the defensive, and it appeared like u had it planned and u were justyfing ur self for doing wrong things, while u were jst stating ur opinion.

[Cydonia]

Originally Posted by sdnightfly

There are also times a guy and a girl will get into arguing and name calling, and totally fall head over heels for each other.

You weren't the prize. This time.

Normally people would suggest cutting your losses and moving on, if you wanted a last ditch attempt to pull her back into your frame, try lines like:

"You're going to have to stop flirting with me, it just wouldn't work out between us"

if she says something like we were arguing, you can follow up with the divorce lines.

You need to emphasis being playful and funny. Win her over.

[Folsom]

In my experience saying ANYTHING about a beautiful woman's looks is a sure fire way to get blown out. I've gone out with plenty of tens, and the one thing that every one had in common was that they wanted to be known for something BESIDES their looks.

For instance, this one ten I know loves to cook. On her myspace she has pictures of the meals she's served. She gets men emailing her ALL DAY LONG about how hot she is. If I were going to open her, I would say something that was food related.

For instance, I would weave a story about how I was hosting a dinner party on Friday, and I wasn't sure if a Syrah or a Pinot Noir would be a better match for the meal. Then I would go into luscious detail about what I'm serving, and finish the email with a question about what she would server in a situation like that.

An opener like this is perfect because it ignores her looks entirely, appeals to her self-image as a more than a pretty face, it DHVs you big time, and also implies that you have a couple of bucks without spelling it out. Best of all it's a re-usable opener so you could cut & paste it for the next ten you find

How to Date Tens You Meet Online : The Folsom Method

[Folsom]

Oh one other note about tens. They will straight-up laugh in your face while emailing you. They LOVE the attention, even if they have NO intention of ever having sex with you. I've had these discussions with friends who are very attractive, they just think it's HILARIOUS when guys email them on myspace talking about how hot they are. Your best bet is to play it cool, and act like there's some OTHER subtext for why you're emailing her. She knows it's a sham, but tens are funny that way. You have to be much more indirect.

How to Date Tens You Meet Online : The Folsom Method