punch me...

[_Shift_]

ok so i'm not too small of a guy (a lil short maybe) 5ft9in 189lbs give or take, low body fat, constantly working out (2-a-days) (lil pic of me on my profile on this forum if ur curious)
i don't know if i have a "punch me face" but i walk around with the highest confidence when i go out (chin higher than my nose) always smiling. i've always been like that. and i noticed it tends to piss people off, i don't care. cause where ever i go, i get taken care of, pretty well networked locally. ("haters" don't concern me)
i fill out fitted short sleeves pretty decently.
this always happens to me... wannabe alpha males feel like they have something to prove THROUGH me. i find myself in confrontations all the time. and usually these douchebags are drunk.
"hey babe, i'm a badass, watch... i'm gonna mess with that guy."
everything usually resolves itself, but drama seems to find me. not sure if it's my build or my confidence...

i'm guessing a little of both because whenever i go out in long sleeves or blazers... i don't look big at all... but these "thugs" try to single me out and start fights. (needless to say they second guess their decisions when they push me too hard and my shirt comes off in the parking lot) but it happens alot less often when i cover myself up with loose clothing.

does anyone else have this problem? or do i have a "punch me" face?

the head of security in this club even told me, after i stepped out behind the club with this thug and he backed down... "you know what shift, i tell all the bouncers i hire about you, you stop in for a quick drink with a girl, don't bother anyone, make friends here n' there, and honestly... you look like a pretty boy but i know you're not afraid to get ur hands dirty..."


i don't like to fight unless there's a REAL reason to. and certainly not in a night club in my nice clothes.

anyone else have drama follow them because of the way they carry themselves or their build?

just curious.

*Cheers!*
-Shift (the big teddy-bear )

[Ice Pill]

I had drama follow me in elementary school, but I was the really smart kid that got put up in classes higher than my "age level", thus making everyone in my class look really stupid.

Honestly though, yea, you have a punch me face, but I havent even looked at your pic and I can tell.

Carrying yourself confidently, with a good build, and gaming girls at the same time makes you look like a king to all those "thugs" trying to AMOG you. But, its expected...

It's easy to relate this to a game I used to play.

There were 5 villages, and each one of these villages had a "King". The King was supposedly the strongest of the village, and to be a king, you had to defeat the current one in power. The villagers would be constantly challenging and attacking their own king for his position and power....

Its like how people "conquer" Mt. Everest and huge goals. You're the "prize" that makes them feel good about themselves as long as they "beat" you in some way.

Like killing a god. You must be something good to kill a god eh ?

What you're going through is common.