Are there girl PUAs?

freezer · #1 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 12:31 AM

my friend found an ebook for chicks to get guys and i guess the author holds like seminars or something..what does this mean?!!

TheRogue · #2 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 12:54 AM

Oooohhh, which e-book?

And who is the guy?

Rogue

sampanye · #3 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 01:57 AM

I remember this being discussed a while ago and several guys seeing it as a threat. But...

Such books have always existed. Have you ever looked at the self-help section in your local bookstore? LOADS of books on how to 'land a man', how to 'keep him'... blah blah blah.

So someone's trying to cash in because ebooks get published a whole lot more easily than paperbacks get placed in stores, and because (who knew?!) girls like guys.

So maybe this guy is holding seminars. I wouldn't worry AT ALL. The majority of girls seem to just naturally develop some level of game and a decent understanding of social situations. And besides... however you like to see it, PU isn't really some incredible jedi mind trick. It's about developing your social skills, boosting your confidence, helping you to understand what's going on when you're interacting with a female - and even with other males. Even if there were female PUAs out there, I don't think it would be a threat to their male counterparts.

bravo29 · #4 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 02:58 AM

They exist but I have yet to learn of an underground "sisterhood" at least on this scale... I think a lot of materials written specifically for women suck in comparison to what is out there for guys (i.e., The Rules), but I don't necessarily think there needs to be gender-specific material if they study all the variables (social art, confidence, personal care, laws of attraction, etc.) that go into the "pua" outlook/life/teachings/etc.

Zetland · #5 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 05:02 AM

Female PUA.

That must be the easiest job on the planet.

Ice Pill · #6 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Zetland

Female PUA.

That must be the easiest job on the planet.

Agreed.

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Originally Posted by sampanye

The majority of girls seem to just naturally develop some level of game and a decent understanding of social situations.

I've noticed this actually. From my past experiences with girls and women is that at a younger age, everything is more straight forward and simplistic (obviously), since they dont know the "unwritten rules" yet...And then later on they start putting guys through shit tests.

It went from

Quote:

"Hey Cindy."
"Hi."
"I like you"
"Me too. Wanna go over to the sand box?"

to

Quote:

"Hey Cindy."
"Hi."
"I like you"
"That's how you pick up girls

?"

freezer · #7 (**permalink**) 08-04-2008, 11:25 AM

yeah its called catch him and keep him(super lame title) and its by christian carter.I guess he used to be a mpua, but she told me that changed his name and wrote a detailed book for women.