Who's not getting laid and Why?

[Sinn]

Hey guys Sinn here,
I'm curious so far who hasn't gotten the results they want?
Anyone who is having problems, post what they are to this thread and I will personally answer them for the next week.
S

[Malibu]

My only problem isnt that im not getting laid...Its my sticking point which i have raised in a recent poll/thread/question.
Ive always had approach anxiety...and even after my recent experiences and triumphs in the field I still get it. I feel its still hindering my improvement.
Id be glad to hear your comments.

Malibu

[Gabriel]

Sinn before I go on with "the list," I just want to say that your presentation on Cliff's List Con. was great.
A few of my problems? Flakes. I've gotten maybe around 20 numbers since the start of the new year and so far only a few have panned out. Any suggestions on better phone game and dealing with a girl that doesn't seem to answer her phone? Putting together the whole day 2 thing is a problem as of late. I'm wondering if maybe bringing a chick to a public gathering with friends would be best or just inviting her out as the two of us is better.
Also, what do you do when you've used your best material and they STILL aren't reacting to it (becoming attracted, throwing IOI's, etc.)? Plow or eject? Go back to an earlier phase (for instance, from C1 ---> A2)?

[next generation]

i am right there with you malibu. my aa is going away now but i still need to get MM fully under my belt. attraction and comfort are not as big a problem as the seduction stage. sure it will come with time like everything else but wondered if you had any specific advice?
ps thanks for taking the time to do this. i am sure i speak for everyone here
regards
next gen

[kenypowa]

Hey Sinn, i got a quick question
When a girl calls a couple hours before the date to flake out (whatever the reasons are)...how should one react?
1) To act that you dont care and simply say "cool, enjoy whatever you are gonna do. c ya"
or
2) Tell them upfront that you dont like flake outs and that you are are going to go out with others and have fun anyway (it's a fine line here...i dont want to sound like an asshole who cant take a flake)
well, that's it.
thx!

[Remy LeBeau]

Originally Posted by Sinn

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Hey guys Sinn here,
I'm curious so far who hasn't gotten the results they want?
Anyone who is having problems, post what they are to this thread and I will personally answer them for the next week.
S

I am getting laid but not as often as I would like.
I have big muscles and sometimes I think they intimidate women. I've also been told by several people that women are sometimes intimidated by me, I'm just realizing now how much more important it is to be smiling than a tough guy.
Also, im getting phone flaked too. Id love some advise on how to deal with that.

[djc922]

Hey, main problem is that I havent scrounged up enough money to but the venusian book yet, only 16/17 and dont have a job so hard to find $70. I have been reading alot of posts but my hardest thing is trying to approach girls i barely know in my classes or trying to get girls attreacted to me when my friends usually get the girl attracted to them. I know everyone probaly gonna respond with get the book and read it and trust me im working on it.

[Jack Handy]

oh man. How I wish I had a good question for you. Let me lay out a few things that I see as my problems. I dont move from the attraction to the connection sometimes. It fits with my bigger problem of accepting sets as failed or not pushing them to the limit. I have been working on this hard core. After my big ass exam tomorrow, then I am spending the day and night doing more. Then I have a lot of traveling over the weekend which means lots of new sets. To answer your question, my FB and I have had a really busy week.
I would like your opinions on what I think is an IOI, When a girl softly punches you in the chest. I wrote some about it in my girly punches thread. What is the best thing to do?
What is a good way to convey that you can be discreet and are open for a sexual get together. As in she has a BF but things can still happen.

Hey Sinn,
Iam going quite well. Havent aproached enough hb8-9 because lack of targets. This is affecting my ability to sarge these girls when i do see them.
My main problem is TIME. I cant find enough time for all these girls. They all want relationships. How do I get the sex without them wanting a relationship. What do i do.

[Rain]

I'm getting laid here and there. But I must admit, it is happening within an average of 12 to 15 hours. I do have some f-closes around 7 hours(some much less), but I suspect that these were more fool's mate than seduction. I'm a decent looking guy, so some of these girls are attracted to me right away; thus, it only takes a decent level of game to close them.
Do you have experience with this? Where should I be looking for mistakes?