Low Investment Openers

[CaptainJack]

After you've spent a few months using Opinion Openers or OMG Openers try this...

Lately I've been doing very low volume, low energy approaches. In fact, lately I haven't even been opening groups.

After thinking about how my style has morphed in the last 6 months I've noticed that a LOT of my openers are very simple, mundane and directed at the Target.

I noticed that my goal has been to open the girl with the lowest investment possible and then use my calibration skills to keep the conversation escalating towards sex.

The best openings have the feeling of being light touches rather than bold strokes. If I can make it seem like we opened each other, all the better.

The Austrasian I posted about a few months ago looked at me and smiled, I smiled back and slowed down as we were passing each other. She slowed down so I opened her. We were chatting away immediately.

I also realized that my "Clown Grin" that I stumbled on a LONG time ago is a LIO (Low Investment Opener).

The proponents of "Short Sets" use LIO's and now many of the group dynamics practitioners use "Pre-Openers."

So, use a simple Low Investment Opener and guage her attitude/interest to being opened. Then, stack forward.

Will it work with a "protection shield?" Probably not. But, here's the thing. It's not a real blow out. If she is snotty or whatever it's real easy to walk off, open someone else and there are MORE girls in the venue it will work with than not so I say use it on them and build social proof and reopen the "protection shielded" girl later.

What about the obstacles? I've found that if you can get a girl attracted and into comfort fairly quickly that the Target will rebuff (man, I've been waiting to use that word for awhile - rebuff) the obstacles by giving them subtle cues to back off.

MOST of you guys are (necessarily) overdoing attraction and overselling yourselves. After you can get attraction consistently throttle back and find out how LITTLE attraction you can get before moving to next phase.

At each phase you want to use the MINIMUM necessary to use the next step. This gives the interaction a feeling of mutual seduction.

What (exactly) are Low Investment Openers?
They APPEAR much like situational openers. Just a quick comment on something you noticed but with a prepared backstory...

Here are a few of my favorites:

* Captain Jack's Nose Ring Opener (pasted below)
* "Rings on Fingers" as an opener
* Mystery's "You're very tall/short..."

Now, if you've been consistently sarging for 4-5 months using bulky opinion openers then throttle back, give this a shot and make your seductions seem mutual.

~ Captain Jack ~
http://captainjackpua.blogspot.com