Guys are just ugly girls, I swear I just wrote a post about this a few days ago.. but such is the life of a traveling vagabond PUA...
All the guys are looking for is a little bit fo respect. They just want to know that you are not BLATENTLY trying to steal their girls...
The reason that guys have a big problem with opening mixed sets (Despite the fact that you actually get laid more from mixed sets than all girl ones) is that YOU know you have an agenda. Remember you are not hitting on anyone until they are interested in you first. Re-read that 75 times. If you open indirectly then neg the target and DHV to the group, they won't feel threatened as they will actually think you are just a fun social guy. You however know what you are doing and are scared which telegraphs just the aganeda you are worried of telegraphing.
So for mixed sets there are a couple of important rules:
1. Don't use girl-centric openers I.E Jealous GF. Instead use something liek Style's 2 part kiss opener. Which you can search for. Look for openers that play to gender differences.
2. Follow up any opener with "How do you guys know each other." The way you game a girl with her BF is WAY different than a girl who's out with office friends...
3. You can compliment guys and ask AFC questions like where are you from, what do you do. You can add pre-selection by mentioning an exGF from there...
4. Isolate. Guys who aren't her BF can't cockblock as much as girls can...
That should be enough.
Finally get out there and do it. You'll see it's not that hard.
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