Finished: Start the Questions....

[Sinn]

I'm ready for Q and A whenever you guys are.

S

[Armac]

Whats the first step to developing rock solid inner game?

And thank you for all you have done in the community.

[Sinn]

Originally Posted by Armac

Whats the first step to developing rock solid inner game?

And thank you for all you have done in the community.

IMO the first step to developing rock solid inner game is to get in field.

Competence breeds confidence. The more good reactions you get from girls the better you feel about you're next approach.

The second thing is something from "Fire in the Belly" by Sam Keen. He says his friend Horward Thurman said the 2 most important questions a man can ask himself are.

1. Where am I going?
2. Who will go with me?

And that you must never change the order of those questions.

S

[awesomepua]

Hey Sinn,

What are your guidelines for constructing qualification questions? I know they should align with my values and expectations. However, I don't want to come across ass trying to hold my frame. If they choose not to answer, I should go back to DHV stories/routines, at what point do I stop cycling back to A2 if she doesn't hook?

I remember reading somewhere either your blog or here that you started qualifying girls early on, what was your qualification question?

Second, what sorts of games/routines do you use to engage the group during A2 before I can isolate the girl? Best friend test is great, and I would like to read your suggestions for others. Thanks again for a great blog, great responses here!

[Bert]

Sinn, common belief in the community is that one should avoid talking about negative subjects in Comfort or in Day 2's, but I've seen advanced PUAs say negative subjects aren't a problem if handled correctly. I noted that in your earlier post on subjects you talk about in comfort you said you'll touch on "My parents divorce and how my mom is a whore."

How do you discuss this and similar subjects while keeping the convo going where you want it, and avoiding playing her therapist when she brings up her own issues (as I assume usu. happens in response?)

Also, on Day 2's, how sexual do you get in the convo? Is this something to seed the conversation with, or to avoid? (Speaking as a less advanced guy who typically doesn't close before Day 3.)

[Im CraCcCraC]

Sinn, what are some good ways to create your own DHV's, and do you recommend it.
Second Question, At what point do you know ur done with A2 and at what point do u know ur done with A3, what do you look for?
Thanks, i read ur blog everyday its Nice.

[Northern Lights]

Sinn,

I PM'ed you a question about spending about 25 minutes talking
about a certain movie you mentioned in comfort.
Do you think talking for that long about something like this
advances the sarge, or are you just overwhelming them?

Also, how sexual is your comfort game? I think Captain Jack
said his comfort game was quite sexual, yet somehow
I remember Tenmagnet saying talking about sex in comfort
raises a girls ASD.

Where do you stand? Also, is this different for girls
who are not strippers? I mention that since I know you
have done a lot of strippers.

Thanks,
AJ

[Sinn]

Originally Posted by awesomepua

Hey Sinn,

What are your guidelines for constructing qualification questions? I know they should align with my values and expectations. However, I don't want to come across ass trying to hold my frame. If they choose not to answer, I should go back to DHV stories/routines, at what point do I stop cycling back to A2 if she doesn't hook?




Sinn writes

I qualify based on personality characteristics and ambitions I want in a potential GF. So I always look for intelligence, I always look for spontanaity, I always look for artistic, I look for performing, I look for sexuality, I look for submission, etc...Qualifying can be as simple as noticing something you like in her then telling her AKA COMPLIMENTING.

The scond answer is depends how hot she is, and how much you want her. A good general guideline is if she hasn't been giving you major signals, after 25 minutes, leave.



I remember reading somewhere either your blog or here that you started qualifying girls early on, what was your qualification question?



Sinn writes,

" Who are you? And you're special because?"



Second, what sorts of games/routines do you use to engage the group during A2 before I can isolate the girl? Best friend test is great, and I would like to read your suggestions for others. Thanks again for a great blog, great responses here!

I don't use specific routines anymore ever. If they are girl coding I may run best friend's test, if not I won't. I hold sets through story-telling and question asking. Once you're good at this you don't need games and routines as your natural social awesome value giving guy personality will shine through. As long as I am talkative I'll get the girl. It's all just a matter of my internal state and how much I can project my personality. DHVs are just a means to demonstrate who you are. You can find a bunch of ways to do that, but until you become that guy you'll still be playing on the first levels of the game.

S

[Sinn]

Originally Posted by Bert

Sinn, common belief in the community is that one should avoid talking about negative subjects in Comfort or in Day 2's, but I've seen advanced PUAs say negative subjects aren't a problem if handled correctly. I noted that in your earlier post on subjects you talk about in comfort you said you'll touch on "My parents divorce and how my mom is a whore."

How do you discuss this and similar subjects while keeping the convo going where you want it, and avoiding playing her therapist when she brings up her own issues (as I assume usu. happens in response?)

Also, on Day 2's, how sexual do you get in the convo? Is this something to seed the conversation with, or to avoid? (Speaking as a less advanced guy who typically doesn't close before Day 3.)

Umm good questions, they will be difficult to explain in text.

1. I talk about negative things a lot, and it's all a matter of just controlling the threads. If it's getting a bad reaction, change the subject. You need to have a contrast to your personality though so don't take avoid the negative as meaning that you have to be some sort of pollyanna.

2. I NEVER play a woman's therapist ever. I'll tell her I don't give unsolicited advice and that she's smart enough to figure out what to do.

3. I don't really do sexual talk until we are on my bed making out with shirts off. It's an arousal technique not a comfort one.

[Sinn]

Originally Posted by Im CraCcCraC

Sinn, what are some good ways to create your own DHV's, and do you recommend it.
Second Question, At what point do you know ur done with A2 and at what point do u know ur done with A3, what do you look for?
Thanks, i read ur blog everyday its Nice.

Thanks for reading my blog it's great writing it.

DHVing is a means of demonstrating that you are a man who embodies the attraction switches 1. Pre-selected by women 2. Leader of men 3. Protector of loved ones Plus about 7 others I teach on workshop. So anything demonstration or languaging that shows her that you are any of these characteristics will DHV you. There's some more on this attributes VS skills discussion in Magic Bullets.

2. There is no hard fast answer as every woman is different and may signal attraction as soon as approached or 15 minutes in based on culture etc... A good GENERAL rule is 3 signals of attraction like asking rapport questions(What's your name?) touching you, moving when you tell her to etc... lets you know she's attracted. Qualification(A3) never ends you have qualify all the way through the relationship.

This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene!

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