Don't be Weird

[Sinn]

Hey guys,
This is mostly dedicated to the guy who stopped me at a bar on the lower east side of NY and asked me for advice, while dressed like a refuge from an 80s Michael Jackson video,and told me that he
" had been sarging for over a year with really low results"
Let me explain his attire to those who were not as fortunate as I to be there that night.
Long stringy 80s metal hair- The moral, buy conditioner and go to a gay hairdresser, do not pick your hair style yourself.
Acne- This is simple go to a dermotolagist or buy some proactiv, it works wonders.
Glasses- Get contacts or Lasik. Unless your glasses get compliments from women you WANT to sleep with. Your mom doesn't count.
Plain black T shirt- Don't wear tees that don't get you opened. It's not worth it.
SUPER tight black pants- wear clothes that fit. Too baggy makes you look immature, too tight makes you look like you should be singing "satisfaction"
Spinning rim belt buckle- If you are over 12 this is lame.
Black nail polish- You guys aren't Mystery. It works for him because he is a " superstar daredevil illusionist" if you are a
lawyer
doctor
engineer
firefighter
student
computer programmer
banker
etc.. don't do it.
It just looks too goth and weird if you go to a day job.
and the topper
.... wait for it
..... are you sure you are ready?
Gleaming white ( Ask CaptainJack he was momentarily blinded) Reebok 1980s pump basketball shoes with his pants tucked in to them. Just in case you couldn't see what the bright light attracting birds into the bar was.
Guys buy cool shoes. It's a well known fact that I like New Rocks( I have like 10 pairs) they are all pretty cool and give you much needed inches of height( cuz standing on my HUGE cock, starts to hurt after awhile) but I've also seen cool Ben Shermans,Adidas, and even Skechers. Get cool shoes and keep them shiny... but not alien abduction shiny.
The bottom line here guys is that before you get really into introducing the tactics from " The Game" or a seminar, try to be the best dressed guy in the bar first. There is an art to learning how to dress and project a powerful first impression. And before you can cut an image like Savoy, Mystery, or Matador, you need to be able to cut an image as someone who stands out without peacocking. Any of the almost 1000 students I have taught in the last 2 years, can tesztify to a major difference in the ways I have dressed from then until now. Styles will naturally evolve if you allow yourself to make some changes to what you naturally do. However those changes don't have to be black nails and a boa.
I think everyone should have a suit, a cool fit in outfit ( like a leather jacket and cool jeans, or a vintage T and jeans, or a button down shirt that fits you really well and stands out.) And something that peacocks. Wear all three of them out and see what gets you the best reactions from girls you want. Credit Lovedrop for that idea.
Now back to our conversation in NY
Sinn: "define really low results " thinking 6 lays
Guy: " I've sarged everday, all day, and once did 40 hours in a week. And the most I've gotten is flaky phone numbers. I'm only 19 and don't want to take a program."
Sinn: " Are you using negs and time constraints?"
Guy: "Yeah"
Sinn: " What openers are you using?"
Guy: " Jealous GF"
Sinn: " Have you read the Venusian Arts Handbook?"
Guy: " Yeah I've read everything"
Sinn: " How long are your sets going?"
Guy: " like 5 minutes"
Sinn: Launches into speech that turned into this post.
If you guys are not getting anything but phone numbers and logging 40 hrs of sarging a week, you are doing something that is majorly weirding girls out.
You need to step back and see what YOU are doing, because it's not her fault.
Do you :
Look cool
Groom before leaving the house
Smell good
Smile
Approach using the 3 second rule
Have a style that is recognizable( are you goth, hip hop, rock, preppy, trendy, sophisticated, scruffy, GQ etc..)
Have clothes that fit you well ( Not clothes that would fit Brad Pitt well. If you carry a little extra weight hide it.)
Have nice teeth
Have well groomed eyebrows and hair
Have clean ears and no ear hairs
Have no visible nostril hairs
Have a nice scent or cologne on
Look like what identity you are trying to project
If you answered no to any of these fix it ASAP.
I totally am not ripping on the guy who approached me as he seemed like a sweet kid who was good intentioned and obviously smart enough to find the community. Plus, anyone who logs the hours they have spent sarging is unreal dedicated. So I totally respect him as a person, he's just the latest example I can remember of guys who just don't get fashion and think that imitating Mystery looks cool.
It's not the clothes that make Mystery, it's the character.
Mystery is one of a kind, but everyone can unlock the part of themselves that is a superstar. Look at Neil, he dresses really well and has his own distinct style( with the ties and formal touches on rock clothing).
Find your own style eventually but in the mean time become the coolest looking guy in the bar. The one most up to date on what's cool.
It's not enough to " wear cool clothes and be normal" but it helps.
Sinn
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