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Old 09-04-2006, 07:00 PM
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Default Sinn on inner game and becoming your best self

Inner game in my mind is the complete absence of insecurities.
IME the best way to help your inner game is to get in field as much as possible and make a list of your insecurities.
Break them down into categories like physical, dealing with women, dealing with friends etc..
Insecurities are just negative beliefs, they are things we take as truth. Read The Matrix Model By L. Michael Hall to learn about frames and the way we construct meanings/reality.
So the next step to making your inner game motherfuckin tizight is to look at all the insecuruities you have written down and then next to them write down what you would like to be in the best case scenario.
For ex:
Insecurity :
I don't always ask for what I want.
Goal:
I always ask for and receive whatever I want
Next write down some scenarios where your insecurities come up and how you react to these situations.
When was the last time that you felt insecure?
What were the triggers?
How did you react?
How would a guy who was more successful than you react to the exact same situation?
As anyone who has taken my bootcamp knows, I really focus on knowing what you want.
I think this is important for a number of reasons
1. You have a goal that you can move towards in small chunks
2. You can focus on appealing to the specific type of girls you want
3. You will become more attractive to other women by the virtue of having standards and a type that you are looking for
4. You can save time by not pursuing one night stands if it's not your cup of tea or having a GF if you enjoy being single.
Well as important as it is to know what type of girls you want, it is as if not more important to think about what kind of man you will have to become to attract the women you want.
What would your best self look like ?
What would he wear?
Where would he hang out?
Who would he hang out with?
What hobbies would you have?
What would your ideal week look like?
And finally my big thought for the day
What can you do besides learning more about game that can help you with women today?
This really is about more than just PU.
The more complete of a person you become, the more success with women you will see.
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