que hacer cuando el obstaculo te califica? (english)

[nighle]

hola, es la copia de mi post, solo para compartir y porque es de un sarge en mexico jaja, no me ha dado tiempo de traducirlo, pero pense que como la mayoria de nosotros sabe ingles....pues:

What are some standar responses when the obstacle starts qualyfyng you?

Heres the context-full story for clarification (due to previous inconformities, ill try to be detailed this time lol):

so i was out sarging for the first time in like 5 months, (was terribly rusty, etc), with my wings opening left and right, and me wrestling with the familiar approach anxiety again, that i thought i had gotten rid off for good, but anyway.
The bar was horribly crowded and couple sets were almost the rule, so my wing points to me to a all-girl 2 set beside the bar with decent space not to be bumped into.... but they spotted us watching them as i was deciding to open, (screwing my usual indirect approach) so i decided to go direct instead (i was toying with the idea of trying direct for the first time before comming to the bar).

so i open with a physical soi, followed by a "vibe" (coldread) soi, and a qualifying question. 10 seconds of silence then, I inmediatelly get body language from my target while the obstacle spewed some shit test crap (i think it was something like, "were you just watchig us from back there", or sumthin), i ignored the comment, did a takeaway (mini-backturn) and continued with "oh yes, how rude of me, i havent introduced myself, asked for both names, presentations, and asked what were they doing. They told me they were relaxing after work, i asked what did they do, teased a little to the obstacle with kino pings (my target was giving me passive iois but was very quiet and it was clear that obstacle was mother-hen here)

Heres the thing: after she told me what she did, she started asking me qualyfyng questions without hiding she was qualifying.

She told me literally (even held 3 fingers up lol), "ok man, 3 things: are you gay?" (which was weird cause i had just soi´ed her friend in front of her), caught me a bit of guard but i looked her in the eyes changing to bedroom voice and asked after a few seconds do i look gay to you? ...........she answered that no, but that it was important to be sure.

then: do you have a job?", i told her i worked and studied.

she then asked me: "do you have a girlfriend?".........i interrupted her (waving my hand in front of me dismissively) and said "ok, ok, i see were this is going (kino to shoulder), i work at "name of tv channel" and at "name of magazine", im heterosexual, im currently single, i love my mom and my friends, and i go to church in sundays (laugh)...i know you are trying to take care of your friend and thats cool because i do it too (kino ping), but you have nothing to worry about,...i am not one of those sleezbags".

then i waited for a few secs and said: ok cutie, your friend and i, we like each other, that cool with you right? (kino to arm) ....(which was funny cause the target had barely spoken but a few words, she just stood there watching and offered no complaints lol) now i want to talk to her

She said yea ok, its fine by me. So i turned and asked my target a light qualyfing question (while mini-isolating with body language),.....after a few secs, the obstacle interrupted saying that she was going out for a bit, and told me to take care of her friend while she was gone, i told her not to worry and i carried on with qualifycation....

Thats it mainly, bit of confort and # closed and left when the obstacle returned.
i mean, i dealt with the situation (obstacle qualyfing me) by using humor and sneaking in dhvs, then inmediately forcing her to acknowledge the pickup, and it worked cause she let me qualify.

BUT!, i realize i may have been lucky, cause she could have said no, or keep pushing for qualifications, or simply refuse to go away (my wings were busy at the moment). So i was wondering if you guys had ideas on how to deal with situations like this, when the obstacle is both the cockblock, and the mother hen (target is the passive in the relationship) and she starts qualifying

cheers