making friends!

[alexein15]

well this is my first post so i am not sure if this is the right place to post , anyway i have this problem that , iam that kind of person that already had come girls , and now i am trying to improvemy skills with this , obviously i have falied many times with many girls , lately i moved to anothe city and i´ve been having some problem making friends because this is like the elite from this city this circle i want to get in is kind of selective , i have some friends of that circle but some are already my enemies lol , they call me asshole but sometime i think they are jealous cause i used to have a pretty girl a very classy girl that most of them couldnt get , but now my concern is , they have started talking bad thing about memaking me see as an stupid or a jerk , how can i dhv if they dont let me and if i meet a new girl she likes me but then they just tell her things that make me look with low value! thanks!

[matrixxx]

Originally Posted by alexein15

well this is my first post so i am not sure if this is the right place to post , anyway i have this problem that , iam that kind of person that already had come girls , and now i am trying to improvemy skills with this , obviously i have falied many times with many girls , lately i moved to anothe city and i´ve been having some problem making friends because this is like the elite from this city this circle i want to get in is kind of selective , i have some friends of that circle but some are already my enemies lol , they call me asshole but sometime i think they are jealous cause i used to have a pretty girl a very classy girl that most of them couldnt get , but now my concern is , they have started talking bad thing about memaking me see as an stupid or a jerk , how can i dhv if they dont let me and if i meet a new girl she likes me but then they just tell her things that make me look with low value! thanks!

wrong forum. They are calling you an asshole for a reason. My guess is it's not because you had a pretty girlfriend. Now, they might cock block you because they are jealous. I suggest befriending the guys in that circle first before trying to conquer the women. You don't have to kiss their ass. Just be your BEST self and don't try to out alpha them or amog them. If they want to be assholes, then leave them alone. Trust me, them talking shit about another guy DLVs themselves. Women see through it believe it or not.

I would not react to their shit talking either. It shouldn't phase you one bit. If women see you react to it, they know you aren't confident and rely on what other people think too much.