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Originally Posted by mikesislano  So I open a one set at a cafe HB9. Here's what happened:
ME: Nice hair... is it a wig? (She was an HB9 with dyed blonde hair) |
Why are you opening with a neg, this is WRONG and will get you blown out of set, you are not even "gaming" here, you are just running through some stuff you heard/read out of context.
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HER: Are you kidding? yes it's my real hair
HER: That sounds very familiar
ME: Oh I was just curious, dont worry, it still looks nice (do a somewhat roll off, then).... While I have your attention, I need a female's prespective on something.....
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A neg implies an FTC, you imply you don't want to talk to people you neg, there is no transition here, and it is incongruent.
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say, this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends of making out with a random guy at the bar..... would you consider this cheating?
HER: that question sounds awfully familiar... uhh yes I do think thats cheating. I don't think being drunk is an excuse... because even if I'm wasted, I still know what im doing for the most part
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If she keeps talking about how it's familiar, why are you refreshing her memory? The entire process after this point is just you lining up a huge DLV which basically indicates you are unoriginal, supplicate to some guy with long hair so you can have his game, and are weird. Though you will also indicate that you may get laid more often than the average guy.
Look if there was an opener about how cool "Calcutta" is, and HB says her dad was murdered on the streets of some Indian town when she was 10 and that name is starting to sound awful familiar, would you continue with that thread or anything very closely related to it?
I'll leave the answer to that open ended.
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ME: okay, that makes sense... now heres the real question... and ill tell u why im asking in a sec.... take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and she does this almost every time she goes out.....would you consider that cheating?
HER: wow you sound even more familiar... but unless the girl is legitamately attracted to the other girl, then its just attention seeking which is stupid in it's own way... so it's either cheating or stupid.
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"Wow the memories of my dead father are coming back, daddy! no! daddy! You monsters you killed daddy! It was, it was in... It starts with a C"
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HER: i've definitly heard both those questions before. especially paired together... on a certain television show.
ME: Really? What show?
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How is this ignoring the target, or avoiding rapport? You've kind of blown it at this point anyway, but next time try something like.
"Wow I like TV too... we're so similar I can't even talk to you." When an HB tries to get you to react, this is perfect material to TRANSITION to another added thread. So do so if you already haven't.
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HER: (laughs really loud) nevermind... if you DONT KNOW thats fine.
ME: (Use magic bullets anonymous email opener)
HER: (No response. Ignores me)
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This is all in good fun but you get the point.
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Originally Posted by Germ Don't try and hide it. Who cares? |
His congruence does. If you want to go out and pick up girls as a "super PUA man", go for it, but most people have "avatars" which are not that style.
Besides this point you'll also be setting ASD off more often than a large amount of land mines would be set off in the path of an animal stampede.
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