Interview Vol 26. Direct Game (Soul, Badboy & Cortez)

[_Al_]

Pros:
I took a Badboy BC back in Spring 2006 and the famous MM Stockholm BC in 2006 with Sinn and almost the entire MM crew. Therefore, I'm able to assess value of the information given out on this CD.

Jeremy interviews Soul (Lovesystems) and Badboy & Cortez (Badboy Lifestyles). Badboy and Cortez are the experts in direct game. What I really like is that the answers are on a higher level of abstraction and they explain exactly why the method works. The Badboy BC mostly focused on "how to do things" but not on "you should do this, because of that". When hearing this CD, I realized that there are still several things that I can do better.
Personally, I've never been a fan of routines. I tried them a couple of times, but what I found is that they do not give better results than by just doing a strong approach. When you try to tell them stuff like Best Friends Test, they can ignore you (maybe they don't hear you). However, if you do a Badboy-type approach (very ballsy), they cannot and will not.

The best things I found are:
-the direct method gets her either IN or OUT. You don't end up spending 2h building rapport with her and in the end she tells you she's in a serious relationship (you wasted 2hrs). That's why for indirect method, you ALWAYS need to isolate, move her physically. If she doesn't comply, it's likely not going anywhere...
-you immediately take all responsibility for the physical escalation
-you sincerly compliment her. If you neg her, she ignores you. As no other guys do sincerly compliment her, she associates you with good emotions and nobody else can give her those.
-investigating her body is so powerful. Why? Because she spent 3hrs in front of the mirror and beauty is what she sells. That's why "you are so damn sexy" is so powerful when delivered properly.
-if you hit on her, she gets interested (with the right body language). You give her what she wants and needs.
-during the day, you should directly hit on her, since otherwise you just end up getting directions.
-...

To summarize, the main reason that makes the product so valuable for me is that it it "explains things", whereas other interviews are "field-tested" (in situation x, I always do y and it works" or worse "..., I did x and it worked"). If you unterstand those things, you can tweak them and do something slighly different but that works better for you.

The audio quality is great.


Cons:
A short introduction into direct game and the masters of the Badboy crew would have been helpful.

Rating: 9/10

[londonsoul]

Hey mate,

Yeah, it was my first time meeting Badboy and Cortez - those guys really rock!! Completely nice and totally charimastic guys, you can seen why they're masters of poontang.

I've been working on some more Direct stuff lately, the biggest thing I'm realising is the nonverbal aspects. I'm experimenting with delivery of EVERYTHING (like almost EVERY single thing I say) with a undertone of sexuality.

This is really hard to get across in print, but here are some examples:

Her: What time is it?
Me: It's about time you met me.

Her: God you're so charming, you always know exactly what to say.
Me: Honey, you make it easy.

Her: Do you like my gloves?
Me: You should wear them with a pair of matching heels, and not much else.

Her: Do you want to dance?
Me: I want to watch you dance, and I want everyone else around us to disappear, so it's just you and me.

Look her straight in the fucking eye as you say these things and DO NOT let the sexual tension slip *boom* touch her an escalate

This shit is powerful, you can get into the most ridiculously sexually intense conversations if you use the right nonverbals.

Soul

[Colin]

I really enjoyed this interview.

One thing that really came to mind that I think a lot of (newer) guys forget or don't realize that get's women REALLY TURNED ON is DOMINANCE


Dominance has to come through in everything.