Mom and Daughter

[salvino]

Ok, before you get too excited, let me clear up the title of this post. I have been building simple attraction with a (dare I say it) possible HB10 milf. Total freaking hottie. The last time I saw her I built hardcore attraction and she was giving me IOI's all over. Tomorrow I am taking out her and her daughter who is in 2nd grade. So I look at it as a two set that will help build comfort.

So this woman has been coming to get pizza at my place for a number of times. I always joked with her and teased her, throwing negs where they rightfully should ("are you really going to eat all this by yourself?" or "quit demanding attention when you walk in"). A woman this hot deserves many negs right away, and she bit hook, line, and sinker. She was always willing to be playful with me, and she would play with her hair and ask me questions about myself when she would come in. The other day she came in with a dude, mind you I hate this guys guts and would love to beat the shit out of him, but that is for different reasons and a totally different story altogether.

So I go in for AMOG. I tell her they make a cute couple, and she starts denying that they are together up and down. "No", she says, "we're just good friends. We're not dating." So I go in for more. I ask "Why not? He seems cool. He can clearly dress himself and speak in public." So she is denying it up and down. He steps outside to make a phone call, and I make sure I build attraction. I tell about traveling to Japan, about how I love to cook, basically I am dropping DHVs everywhere and she's feeling it. I'm making sure I'm making statements that make her keep talking. I say things like "I love working here, but every now and then I just have to get out for a while, maybe leave the country again". Which leads into where I have been and why, and she gets more and more turned on. So I number close her right there, and she tells me to call her. I make sure I don't look desperate. I go back to work or open other tables nearby to keep me from just hovering over her.

Today she comes in with her daughter. It's her week to be with her daughter, so I get in good with the "obstacle" (i.e. the daughter, who seem sweet). I ask the daughter if she likes sushi, and she gets excited, so I offer to take the two of them out tomorrow night to a great restaurant I know. I feel like this was a screw up. I offered to buy dinner for someone when I was still in attraction, and only starting to build comfort.

I am going to look at this like it's a two set, keeping the little girl happy, and negging the milf a little bit at dinner. If I can do this early in the evening, and then later concentrate more on the milf, it will build comfort. Now, I don't plan to ditch the little girl anywhere (because that would just be fucked up), so I'll just keep it a two set the whole night.

My goal is to build more attraction initially (being cool and fun, and of course dressed well and not in my work clothes) and eventually moving into real comfort later in the night, maybe after we bounce for ice cream or coffee. I'll post it all soon.

Any thoughts on this, gentlemen?

[sdnightfly]

Spend more time with the mom when she doesn't have the kid around, and get to know her better... like having her come in when you close down, and just hang out with you with no promise of food or drinks after. If she's into you, she won't mind just going there to hang out. I'd try to get an idea where she's at in life right now, talk to her over the phone a little more and get her to open up about herself.

Going to the restaurant with her and her daughter isn't a "date".

[kremie]

looks like you're golden. Just don't treat the restaurant thing as a date like the last guy said. That's the only thing right now that could screw you up apart from you being needy. Keep the negs and c/f and dhvs flowing and soon you'll be flowing into her pants.