Hi, I'm Nick. I've been a nerd my whole life. Not a horrible nerd, but never had enough social awareness to get a girl. I spent my entire high school life posting on different video game forums. Once I came across
David DeAngelo's e-book, my life began to change. I then read the Mystery Method, The Game,
The Rules of the Game, and the PUA Field Guide. I've been improving a lot, and it has all gotten me to last night.
It started when I was talking on my phone to a buddy of mine - we were talking about going to a nightclub right by the university. That's when to HB8s came along.
HB8: Hey, can you take a picture of us? We just met, and we are best friends, and we need pictures together!
Me (talking to my friend on the phone): Hey, man, let me call you right back. These two girls are trying to hit on me.
HBs both laugh. Attraction sparked.
From there, we made some fluff, I ran the best friends test routine, and # closed.
The number close was especially awesome, because she told me she had a boyfriend. I replied with, "Well I'm not asking you for HIS number!"
It is amazing seeing how everything I read from Mystery's book came out exactly like he said. I didn't introduce myself - they did. IOI. When we shook hands, they held on for a second longer. IOI
Anyway, we parted ways, and they ended up calling me asking me to come to a party. I told them that since they loved me so much and they just couldn't have a good time without me, I'd consider it, but I wanted to hang out with my buddy.
Once we went up to that party, apparently these girls had been talking about me, because 3-4 more girls came up and asked me if I was the guy they had been talking about!
I ended up kiss-closing a girl with a nosering, and I don't even know her name. I used the cube routine and the beauty is common routine as my most successful routines. I did some palm reading, but didn't really know anything about palm reading so I made some BS up. But I gotta say, you guys are right when you say chicks dig the Cube routine.
I was easily the alpha there just because of these girls talking about me - all of the guys respected me. It was awesome being top dog for once.
So here, I thank the community for where you have gotten me to.
Anyway, I want to ask one question about one point I was at with nosering.
Alt one point, she said to me, "You are a great guy. I can see that there is more to you than just sex. I can tell that you wouldn't just use me for sex, and I like that."
At that point, I kinda didn't want to have sex with her that night. Because the thing is, I did only want her for sex, but I didn't want to have sex with her if she would hate herself later for it. Is there any way to convince a girl like that that casual sex is okay? Style mentions in his book that he never lied to a girl and always left them better than he found them. I know I could have f closed her, but I wanted to do it like a true PUA and have respect for her and myself when I did it. Any advice on that?