OK THIS POST MAYBE LONG BY THE TIME IM DONE.. IM LOOKING FOR LEGITIMENT POINTERS ON CORRECTING MISTAKES AND WEATHER OR NOT IM READING THESE SITUATIONS CORRECTLY.. SOO PLEASE THOUGHTS APPRECIATED..
last night i was at this club that i promote for in my home town... nothing special.. an old freind comes (HB7 evolved from HB3) comes with a freind HB8 soo i figured i would use it as a great practice ground.. plus shes really fucking hott.. id be stupid not to, seeing as how her freind has known me sine we were 4..
1ST- starting convo.
soo they walk up to me as im outside smoking.. she walks strait to me after a short little convo she introduces me to her freind HB8 lets call her kitty ( she was wearing a dress with a sort of tiger print on it i think) soo i go inside and head for the bar to get a drink.. im at the very end of the bar i get my beer and turn away only to see my freind hb7 and kitty right in front of me ... she asks me to order there drinks.. not buy them ..order them... she then said some dumb shit about not liking thie interaction with bartenders.. ne way i refuse and walk away (*note: i think that was a good indication that not only am i a challenge but also alpha, i hope) so after they get there drinks they sorta huddle in front of the bathrooms no really doing much HB7 kinda just standing there sipping her drink while KITTY is sorta bounceing around mouthing the words to the songs playing.. but still they arnt moving.. soo i approach the both of them and start some small talk with HB7.. i throw some jokes at to get the energy up and to enter the set with a presence of
humor and energy...
2ND - THE TARGET
at this point im in a lil bit of a rut.. i know i dont have to open.. ive already got HB7 talking.. but though kitty is listening she has nothing to respond with because HB7 is talking about stuff she cant relate to.. but i shortly catch a break when HB7 says " are you goin to X concert friday?" i then respond yes.... HB7 tells KITTY and now KITTY is focused on me and the convo.. i mimiced there excited energy and signaled a hig five to KITTY .. which she does.. i then acted like i was surprised at the fact that she liked the artist performing at the concert and after the high 5 i wraped my arm around her and leaned in soo she could hear me say.. " thats cool your gonna be my new lil sister.. im adopting you!" she laughed and said ok.. HB 7 complained and wanted me to adopt her too soo i told i would.. THIS IS WERE I THINK I FUCKED UP A PERFECTLY GOOD NEG OPPRITUNITY.. i then looked at KITTY and said ok ill adopt her too.. i then said that KITTY could be the good one and HB7 would be the grounded one.. it worked out to be a good neg but i think that i reversed it and kinda gave away alil of my interest in KITTY.... but i digress.... soo i then played the carrot game with KITTY.. i was getting good responces from these lil gambits and such... my only problem is that i couldn tfind a thread to stick.. at least not one that would have gotten KITTTY talking.. but i stuck with it .. rolled out of the set a few times.. and everytime i came back there attention was on me..
3RD- IOIs ??
throughout the night i had reading wat i had beleived to be IOIs but im not 100%.. this is really why im posting this becaus ei just want to know if i was doing it right and if i was reading her correctly... one possible IOI was... In an attempt to get both of them into a convo i decided i would ask the opinion question i would have asked if this were a cold approach set.. as i was asking the both of them were leaning in to hear me... my freind walked in and grabed KITTY and tried to get her to come on the dance floor ( stupid promoter trick to try to get girls to dance sooo the club looked...active.) soo i continued to run the questiong on HB7.... but... KITTY came back second later and leaned in waiting to hear the question...i then busted on her for leaving...WAS THAT AN IOI? ... after i asked she gave me her opinion and i then wraped my arm around her again to qualify her for sharing the same opinion as me by saying " your awsome im gonna keep you!" as the night went on i had noticed that she had been laughing at lil actions and jokes that really werent meant to be THAT funny.. at times she would reach across the set to touch me to get my attention.. if HB7 had done somthing stupid or funny.. and at other times she would lean forward and place her hand on me as she was laughing ( almost to make it seem as if she was laughin soo hard she was actually keeling over and was grabing me for support...IS ALL THAT SHIT IOIs? and the final one i feel like might have been an IOI was right befor she left... we were sitting on a couch me HB7 and KITTY.. i was sitting across from both of them talking to HB7 and some of my freinds that piled in behind us.. KITTY was texting on her phone for about 5 min.. when she had finished i looked at her and said.. ARE YOU DONE BEING RUDE?.. she laughed and said yes.. then looked at me and said in a MATTER OF FACTLY tone of voice... its not like you were talking to me ne ways... (*note- there were four other people in the set at the time WAS THAT AN IOI.... there were more small details but im trieing to remember all of this from last night and i had a few beers... (*note- the only reason i couldnt close was because i guess her X showed up at the club and made her leave with him.. doesnt matter though.. i figure.. ill game her... try to make her drop him, hook up, f close, or if nothing else , take it as practice and one step closer to expanding my
social circle)
4TH- future encounters...
FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO READ THIS POST TOO THIS PART HERE IS ONE MORE QUESTION.. FOR THOSE THAT R GOING TO BE ASOME ENOUGH TO SHARE SOME ADVICE..
IF WHAT I THOUGH I READ WAS INTEREST, IS CORRECT.. WAT WOULD BE A GOOD WAY TO INITIATE CONVO,
KINO, ECT.. THE NEXT TIME I SEE HER.. OUT OF THE NEXT 3 DAYS I HAVE A 80/20 CHANCE ILL SEE HER AT LEAST ONCE IF NOT MORE.. SOME SUGGESTIONS ON.. KEEPING THREADS FLOWING, AND REACTIVATING ATTRACTION WOULD HELP... THANK YOU SOOO MUCH
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Game developing... Im i on the right track? Adivce appreciated
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