I made plans to meet with SirSlick today at 3PM, and run some daygame with him. So, I put on my hip-hop gear and my laid back and fun-loving personality on and headed over near the LA area. When I met SirSlick, he was just as I imagined him, laid back and a bit serious as well, and I knew we were gonna have fun shooting some
day game!
When we got to our first venue, I warmed up with a couple of sets that were in the food court, but realized one of the sets consisted of girls that I couldn't game (age-wise). He wanted to hit at least 5 sets today, so when I saw him in action, I really liked the 2nd approach he made. He made a fashion cold read on a HB9 asian girl and then quckly got a "facebook-close" with her. I noticed that her posture and her reaction to his statements were great and indicated interest, so I knew he could've escalated with her, but he ejected right away. It appeared later that the girl her facebook-closed was an upcoming asian popstar! and SirSlick felt like kicking himself when he found out (I felt like kicking him too, especially since I told him right after that he could've escalated! lol).
While I was out there, I got opened about four times with my sunglasses and the chain I was wearing, mostly by
hired guns. Like I've said in previous posts, I really don't like to close any
hired guns, but rather befriend them and use them as social proof if I visit the venue again. I spoke to
hired guns all over the mall, bantered them like crazy and got good reactions and social proof as well. I kinoed many of them by putting my arm around their shoulder or touching their face (when I would critique the make-up artists, lol) and really knew how to get the playful vibe going with them. Later though, we went inside the Old Navy store and I saw this cute HB8, went to run game on her:
SR: Can one girl tell if another girl is wearing make-up, or not?
HB8: Yeah!
SR: Check this out, last week when I was in Hollywood, my friend Monique told me that the girl I wasn't interested in didn't wear make-up that day. Now, I told her it's because she wasn't my type. So does make-up really make that much of a difference?
HB8: Umm... I don't know.
SR: So, I know you're wearing make-up today!
HB8: A little...
SR: Well, I'm sure you're still pretty... (tease), but do you think she was jealous?
HB8: Yeah, I think she was *giggle*...
SR: You ever been to Hollywood?
HB8: Yeah!
SR: All the time I bet (playful)
HB8: No *giggle* not that much...!
SR: How old are you?
HB: 19.
She was surprised someone actually approached her the way I did, so I push pull my body language and
kino. She then began to feel a bit comfortable with my
kino and presence in general.
SR: So, can you cook?
HB8: No, not really.
SR: Oh great! So, you're just the at home type of girl that gets food from home like a freeloader (playful)
HB8: *Giggle*
SR: Alright, I get it! (smile)
SR: You're from around here I bet!
HB8: Yeah... well I work here.
SR: Oh, so you WORK here! *playfully* (I knew she wasn't an employee of the store)
HB8: No, in the mall at another store. (Smile)
(I wanted to hurry things, so I used my "FDQ" at that moment... a bit too early, but I figured I was in already)
SR: You know what? You seem really nice, but… ok, (I put my arm around her) let’s say you went on a date. How would your first ideal date be like?
HB8: *Thinks*...
SR: *I remove my arm to show that I set the boundaries and to push-pull again*
SR: Ok, lets say you two went out dining, who decides where you two go? You? Him? or both of you?
HB8: Me.
SR: Wow, you're tough!
HB8: *Smile*
SR: Alright, let's say the waiter looks you in the eye *looks at her*, approaches you *faces her* and then asks your date if you would like a glass of Laissez Faire wine (looks the other way to continue to push pull), and keep in mind that this wine is $200 per glass, and he wants to get it for you. Would you accept it or not?
HB8: Yes, I would.
SR: Wow... ok! (keeping it interesting)
SR: Now you open the menu and you see exactly what you want! ...but it comes in a huge portion! and there's something else kinda you want and it comes in a smaller portion. Keep in mind that you're really hungry... so what do you get? The huge portion or the small portion?
HB8: The small one.
SR: Alright, one more part this! After you two go dining, you two go to the movies and have fun afterwards! Then he takes you home, walks you to your house, then talks to you for about 5 minutes, and you're really into him! You both pause… what happens next?
Does he kiss you? Does he give you a hug? Or does he say goodbye and walk away?
HB8: Hug him! (Smile)
SR: You want to know what this all means now?
HB8: *Nods*
SR: That fact that you said you'd decide the place says that you're the one who likes to be dominant in a relationship.
HB8: *laughs*
SR: Also, you accepting the wine says that you're into a guy for their lifestyle, wealth and what they have.
SR: Since you ordered the small portion, that means you are a bit self-conscious of yourself and how you look. *looks at her firgure*
HB8: *Smiles*
SR: Now, the fact that you said you'd hug at the end says that you like to take a relationship step by step.
HB8: Yes... *Giggle*
SR: Also, the fact that you said you'd choose the place and would hug at the end says that (I put my arm around her again)
you've been on a lot of dates before... but have trouble finding the right guy, and every time you've found him, you lose interest... and you don't know why...?
HB8: *laughs*
SR: Pretty crazy!
HB8: *looks at me all surprised*
SR: You know what, I like you're ideas on dating!
HB8: Thank you!
SR: So, you're from this area, right?
SR: We should go hang out next week... let me get your number.
HB8: Oh... I have a boyfriend.
SR: (probably a shit test, or maybe true) We'll go hang out around the area, I'll get my group and we'll meet up!
HB8: Ok.
SR: *Takes out phone* What is it?
HB8: *Gives out me her #*
I stuck around a bit, and then gave her a goodbye hug!
Afterward, SirSlick told me she was really cute. I then continued to approach different girls using "Direct" openers now. SirSlick had good approaches, but didn't really escalate too much until we reached the next venue. He noticed some girls staring at me, which I would bater with, but not really escalate. I told him why I'd just rather befriend the
hired guns (which mostly stared at me). I felt like a walking superstar in some stores, I had 3 HBs who worked at the one of the stores take out a post it note and write down all three of their numbers to give to me. However, I felt it was too easy and pulled back, I wanted to #close girls the right way
. They were all coworkers and barely began hanging out, so they figured I knew where the right spots are. I told them about some spots about the area, and then ejected before they got out of hand.
The next venue was just out on the streets, I didn't find too many sets I could approach, but SirSlick got some good approaches in. We went into a bookstore and he opened a 3 set of young girls about the ages of 19-20. I winged him in the set, and we talked to those girls about books, magazines, school, location, etc. They were really nice and socialable, and I knew I could've gotten the HB's number right next to me, but she was from San Fransisco (which I critiqued her about being part of the "gay pride parades" lol) a bit too far from where I live.
After we daygamed, we ate lunch and talked about all that happened. I knew he really liked my fun vibe when I opened sets and got social proof throughout the mall, and I liked his laid back natural flow approaches. Honestly, I felt I could've done better on most of my sets and didn't feel like I showed him how fun I could get the girls acting and responding, but I still had a fun time.
So basically, I got a #close with a girl who had a boyfriend (or claimed) and he got a facebook-close with a uprising asian popstar.
(BTW, my "FDQ" routine is here
The "First Date Qualifier")
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